Hello everyone. Hope so all of you are doing well. Today i will tell you few tricks to know someone well.
how to read people is a psychological superpower, but it’s also a skill that anyone can pick up. It’s possible to glean a ton of information about others simply by paying attention.
1..The way they treat service staff
The way someone treats people who work in retail, food service, and hospitality tells me pretty much everything I need to know about them. Why? Because when you’re dealing with service staff, you’re in a position of power. An employee almost always has to be nice to you because “the customer is always right.”
If you treat these people poorly, it shows you have low integrity, empathy, and even self-respect, because someone with self-respect never has to act as if they’re above anyone
2.How polite they are
People often point out how “polite” I am, and it’s so strange to me. It’s shocking to find out how rare it is for people to have basic manners. That’s why whenever I meet a person who says “please” and “thank you” often, I know I’m dealing with someone who’s socially intelligent. You can make someone’s day, reduce friction during interactions, and move through life much more easily by saying those simple words
3.How they walk
I learned a useful trick from The Art of Charm called the “doorway technique.” Basically, you “anchor” confident body language to something you commonly see during the day, like a doorway. Each time you walk through the doorway, you’ll know to check your body language. Are you standing up straight or are you slouching your shoulders? Are you walking with a bit of pep in your step or are you dragging your feet?
4.How they respond in slightly uncomfortable situation
situations like these can be a clue to how a person moves through their life — and how they’d handle the bigger things, where the social friction is greater. Are they willing to be a bit uncomfortable, or will they stay quiet because it feels safer?
5.How they frame their responssibilities and challanges
Do you “have to” work on the technical aspects of your business, or do you “get to” learn valuable technical skills to help your business grow? When you listen to people talk about the things on their plate, you can get a sense of whether they view life through a lens of victimhood or of agency. Language is powerful.
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