I remember posting my question in the Proof of Brain Community of HIVE blockchain. And got some really good replies out of it.
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The basic theme of the question was - "If you are successful and if you show it to people who are against you, they could cause more problems. How would you manage success and handle those same set of people?".
I got really good amount of responses to the question. And there were many replies with recurring piece of advice. I thought I should come out with something out of it and can present it to you in much more granular form of advice.
So here's the advice related to managing the success and handling the jealous people.
Hide Your Success
Sometimes the best thing you can do to avoid the jealous people is to hide your success. You have to make sure to not show off in front of the people who have nothing good to think of you.
This may feel like living in a prison but you have to set some boundary in order to set your success in the right direction. You would understand that success gets easier on that front when you have less resistance when it reaches to you.
Keep some distance from people who are negative to you
Sometimes you can feel the negativity of people. And you can decide if you want to get close to such people or get away from such people. And if you choose to get closer then expect them to have issues when they see your success.
So the best approach here would be to keep some level of distance when you are making the habit of dealing with such people. Learn to keep them away from you and then decide if you can manage them in a better way.
Hang out with positive people
When you start hanging out with the positive people, you end up keeping the distance with the negative one. And they can sense that too. And they would most likely either continue the hate or learn to keep the distance.
A lot of people who want to establish their positive journey would end up ignoring and automatically siding up the negative away. And that is a good start to manage the success and people in general.
Don't give a f###
Yeah that is one of the reaction you can see you can do. You avoid such peoples opinion about you and don't give them a F*. It's not really a good advice for those who value people and avoid not hurting them. I think this is good for those bold type of people who are more in control of their life.
Who should do this? If you are strong with will and does not care about the life without social elements. Then you can definitely take this advice and use it for your focus as what others say as it is does not affect us much either.
Conclusion
A lot of what we do with life is a journey. And that process requires us to take control of our actions. And we have to be pretty good with our judgement so much so that we don't let it affected and controlled by the opinion of others.
I hope by now you have learned to how to manage your success and how to handle people who are negative towards your success. I hope this short article helps you towards just that.
