“The sense of one's own value or worth as a person.”, that's self-worth.
Self-worth is an internal state of being that comes from self-understanding, self-love, and self-acceptance.
"It is difficult to make a man miserable while he feels worthy of himself."– Abraham Lincoln
In life, you may find it hard to really value your own self. You may feel worthless through the problems and obstacles thrown in you, the criticisms, your downfalls, the lies, and the hurtful words that have been said against you.
Despite all of these, never forget to know yourself, and know your worth. We may not get all that we want in life, and may not know what tomorrow may bring, never forget to always value yourself.
Accept yourself wholeheartedly for who and what you are at all times despite your flaws, imperfections, and limitations. Don't let other people's opinions define who you are, you alone are the most meaningful factor in how you feel about yourself, about your life, and about your circumstances.
Believe in yourself above anything else.
You can’t put a value on yourself unless you believe in yourself first. Believe that you can do things which you may think is impossible.
If you belittle yourself and treat like trash you’ll never appreciate and understand your potential. It’s in your potential that your true value lies. You can’t figure out what you’re worth unless you know what you’re capable of doing.
Understand yourself better. Who you are and how you see yourself are keys to understanding your true value. Know your struggles, your fears, know your mistakes, and accept the fact that we’re only human. And as human beings, we all have our weaknesses and face our own personal shortcomings.
Know your own strengths. As I've said above, never let other people's opinion affects you on how to define yourself. Know your true strengths, the strengths by your own measure and understanding.
Love your self. As the song titled 'The greatest love of all' said, 'Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all'. This is somewhat true, always speak positively to yourself, and show yourself the support that you need. Give yourself your 'Me time', learn to appreciate and focus on the beauty within you.
When you know your self-worth, and learned how to value yourself, you’re no longer depending on what other people say and no longer let them make decisions for you.
No matter what you do in life, people will easily judge you in many angles and aspects, so it's better to be yourself. Being true to yourself is not that hard to obtain, be yourself and you will gain happiness and find the real value of yourself.
When you know your worth, you may feel your confidence boosts, the complaints in your life will be lesser, self-pity and self-blame will stop.
"Self-worth is so vital to your happiness if you don’t feel good about you, it’s hard to feel good about anything else." – Sandy Hale
If you feel undervalued and see the unworthiness in yourself, it's not too late to believe in yourself again. It is time to take back control to understanding your value and acknowledge your individual worth.
@eommaZel ✍🏻
Before any other person appreciates or encourages us, we first have to believe in ourselves. A positive self-esteem is very important. We should not look down on ourselves by comparing other's achievements to ours.