Thirsty to Grow in Wisdom

This genuine and very human need, on the other hand, leads to a significant problem in communication between individuals, which is that we tend to be far more focused on what we are anxious to offer than we are on listening to our interlocutor.

These are the moments when we are already making preparations for our response, rather than being fully present and attentive to the situation at hand.

Most beings are unable to listen because they are too preoccupied with their feelings and their vulnerabilities. Because of this, each and every one of our interactions is, in fact, sterile. They may provide us with relief, but they do not provide any results.

The act of listening is a choice that is connected to a genuine desire to communicate and a generosity of spirit. A principle that relates to the highest degree of human motivation is the principle of self-interest.

We all share a great deal in common, but at the same time, we are all so incredibly unique. When they are not in direct opposition to one another, our values, our goals, our motives, and the manner in which we imagine our lives and the worlds we live in are all subject to divergence. When viewed in this light, the ability to "get along" with one another should be considered more of a miracle.

Because of this, we all engage in the delicate art of compromise, which never provides anyone with a sense of satisfaction. We continue to be eager for the opportunity to be "heard," at least by some. To say that there was ever an "agreement" would be to say that it was at the very least open to interpretation.

To our great good fortune, we are currently experiencing beautiful awakenings and deep shifts in paradigms and views within our society. The development of new ways of thinking, new maps, and new methods of thinking, as well as new skills and attitudes.

The contributions made by Marshall Rosenberg, the person who developed the concept of non-violent communication, are of great worth. And not simply in situations where there is a dispute. As a means of being mindful in general.

In this day and age, his work on our interactions and emotions remains unparalleled, and it is imitated all around the world without exception.

Because, in the end, this is the paradox: we do not give ourselves what we want for ourselves.

Thanks for being here.

Wish you all a very happy new year!