How to be you? That’s the question we frequently ask to someone; may it be in a joking manner or serious, and it can also serve as a compliment. This most frequently asked question was so mainstream do we really know the true meaning behind it? It is so easy to ask it to almost about anyone. But, if we, ourselves we’re to be asked, how to be me, really?
It is really complex on how we can answer such a simple question, at first glance or hear it really is a no-brainer. We can seem to answer it without dwelling on too deep. But if we think about it or if we weigh it in and deliberate it isn’t it too hard to answer without looking too proud or self-proclaimed? How to be me? Would the answer be as; just follow everything I do, my likes, my hobbies, my routines. Does that answer the question? Does that satisfy the one who asked you? The nature of this is to just ask and blurt it out without really requiring the true essence of it. it can just be thrown at you as a compliment, a jokingly manner and sometimes an insult.
How to be you? This question is so easy to say but runs a deep essence. Like the question. "Who am I?" We can't answer it in a manner that we can answer it so directly.
We all have different unique qualities that makes us distinct and worth musing for. We all have these abilities that others can't do. We all have desires, dreams and hobbies that motivate us differently. And we have these notable qualities that make someone ask, "how to be you?” No matter what our interpretations with this question is, the important thing is how we view ourselves with someone of value. Why would someone ask us such a question?
So, how to be me, really? Simple, just be yourself and indulge in the thought of being valued. Discipline, persevere, believe in yourself and be fueled by strength. Be rooted, humble and grounded. And if you do all these, you are really worth asking "how to be you?"
