Unhealthy-
1. isolation- dapat ang mundo hindi lang umiikot satin, your friends, my friends, your family is my family. No to tayong dalawa lagi.
Dapat plus plus plus relationship, no to minus minus.
Kapag obsessive love, maniac love daw yn. Extremely possesive and jealous.
2. Extremely demanding- nothing wrong with demands kasi important un but iba ang extreme. No to intensity, halimbawa, pinapapili mo ung sweetheart no sa exam nya at pagdadate nyo🤣
Intensity is so suffocating. Dont be a parasite daw na nabubuhay sayu.
3. Bully Syndrome- aggresion, aggresor, physically nanakit in a bad way. Dont sampal sampal. Dominance. Power tripping.
4. Exploitation manipulation- sexuality "pag hindi natin to ginawa, iiwan kita" wrong daw un. Dapat hindi bumuhay sa relationship ang sexual things. Dont define love in terms of ludus, fun and conquest in the context of sexuality.
5. Maturity factor- kasi hindi lahat ng relasyon naglalast. Reality check, pagsinabihan ka ng sweetheart mo na ayaw nya na sayu. Syempre masakit, walang masayang break up. How to know if you will survive? Spiritual maturity. Kasi kung hindi, magkakaron ng self pity to the point of suicide. Kaya dpaat marunung mag cope up.
6. Spiritual- this will sustain us in our deepest moment, kaya always pray for each other. Hang on to God together always. Kahit dumating na sa point na iiwan mo ko, masasaktan ako, iiyak ako, but I will still hang on to God. Let go Hang on and Move on.
True love
Can wait
Is a principle
Knows priority