Passion puts more colour into a relationship, always find more energy in every kiss, every tender touch, every hand hold and even the littlest thing and let it build into an artful masterpiece.

It's always fun at the early stages of marriage when the passion is still young and hungry. And every little detail feels like a drag of euphoria, every sensation and touch completely felt and embraced. We often do wish these memories last a long time, but sadly it's not always so.

As the days continue to expand into months, kids come into the picture, and the frame often tends to shift into a new focus. Often times at the earlier years of welcoming an infant into a new home, parenting kicks into full gear and everything else literally takes the back seat.

With a baby in the picture it is often impossible to juggle the task of parenting with other things. At this stage there is likely little or no room for romance, with the baby being the centre of attention and all.

The days become so demanding as having to keep constant watch over the baby becomes the number one priority, and foreclosed nights of sleep deprivations to care for the baby takes left, right, front and center for the young mother. With so much VIP attention needed by the baby, and constant duty stamps of baby food pukes over clothes.

Women tend to struggle with waking up from a perfectly toned body to the reality of the weight gains (and love handles) that comes during and after the first pregnancy.

The expectation to bounce back into physical attractiveness becomes even higher when a stroll for grocery shopping takes them through a parkway of magazine covers stamped with slim, thick, athletic fit girls. This tends to open up windows for negative body self image and depression.

You need to reassure her that she's still the amazing woman you fell in love with and married. Women always want to be reassured that your feelings and love hasn't changed over time, more especially now than ever.

Words are sweet but actions are much more in demand. An occasional show of emotional support, tender touches, soft kisses on the lips and forehead, holding hands or a hug goes a long way to improving her predisposition on her negative body self image.

If it needs getting a personal instructor, getting a gym subscription or creating a personal workout plan to get her self confidence back, then you should lend an ear and cheer her all the way through the process.

A positive body image of self helps to build back self confidence, and with self confidence the desire to play dress up brings the sexy back. As women are to expressive feelings, men are to visuals and touch.

Wardrobe malfunctions do sets back passion in relationships and as well in marriages.Often times, women tend to just settle into the thought that his got me now, i don't have to do too much to catch his attention. And other times, with respect to the fully charged schedule of juggling between household chores, parenting, puke stained fittings and laundry rounds eats through the time to go fashion crazy.

However, looking sexy plays an important role in keeping the passion alive in a relationship. It doesn't just boost your body self image, it also keeps your man attracted to you.

What's your favorite pair of lingerie that catches his attention? Does he like lacy panties or silk ones. Take him through a series of adventures of different lingerie sets, spice it up with pair of corsets, watch his reaction, how he responds and play to his interest. Work up a series of cosplay roles and see if he responds to any.

A lot could go into a simple one piece lingerie fishnet set or a nylon-spandex nurse cosplay get up. The key is to find what captures his interest, and play hotspots to those ends.

Communication used effectively drives up the passion in a relationship. In order to capture his interest, you should be able to ask questions and also be able to communicate your needs to your partner in return. Both partners should be able to communicate their positive needs rather than what they don't need, this portrays a medium of communication that identifies each partner's need without complaints or blame. This helps to strengthen the bond including intimacy and romance in relationships.

Rather than getting defensive and demanding or offensive and withdrawing or letting the power play do more harm to your relationship, have a good sit down discussion and touch up on your positive wants and try to find a compromise.

Creating date nights and a couples time alone moments are also very much in the play to get the sexy back into relationships and marriages. With a time schedule super charged with desktop paperworks, household chores and parenting, time should be taking to plan out relaxing alone with your partner. An atmosphere where more attention and communication is themed towards having fun and activities that helps to bounce passion back to your relationship.

When was the last time you surprised your partner with something out of the blue. Surprise your man with a trail of rose petals and a set of mind blowing lingerie, treat your lady to a candle lit, champagne in hand, bubble bath and awake some of that lost passion back.

Plus it doesn't hurt to once in a while skip the after work hang out with the guys to spend more time with her, or take your turn with the chores so she can be relaxed and be able to find the energy to work up your passion in the bedroom.

Love is two people discovering their flaws and still choosing to be together, let love lead the way.