Like mother like daughter

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4 years ago

Being a mother is not an easy task,from pregnancy to giving birth. But that doesn't stop there.

I am a mother of one. I had her when i was 22. I got pregnant after two years of living together with my boyfriend. He was five years older than me. I was 20 years old and he was 25 when we decided to live together.

After giving birth, i suffered from post partum depression. It was really hard for me, i almost give up, but thanks to my family and boyfriend i surpassed that ugliest point of my life.

I am a hands on mom when it comes to my daughter. I made sure that everything is good for my daughter. From foods, clothing, toys etc. I want the best for her. All mothers want that. And when she started attending school, from her first day in pre-school ,elementary and now that she is in senior high school, i see to it that everything is in order. She often complains to me,saying she is no longer a baby and she can take care of herself. But to me, she's still a baby. She is my unica hija.

We have an open relationship,me and my daughter. I always told her that she can tell me anything. That she can tell me if she have a crush or if she have a problem so that i can help her. And she did, everyday after school, she always told me everything, even her crushes. She sometimes ask me about my ex boyfriends and crushes when i was single. And i never hide anything from her, even my mistakes,thinking that she will not do the same mistakes.

I guess i did a better job as a mother because i can see that my daughter grew up a better person. That is the best reward that a mother or parents can have. Being a mother is not an easy job indeed, but very fulfilling.

I know every mother here in read.cash can relate. Congratulations to us moms! We did and still doing a great job!

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Wow... Great about like mother like daughter... Good...

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3 years ago

Thank you dear.

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3 years ago

No one else compare to the mother. They make us feel better when we've blown it, encourage us when we've made complete fools of ourselves , brings comfort when life throwns an unexpected curve, make things right for us, make every effort affording her child the very best in life. There's nothing like a mother's love for her child. Well, almost nothing. Salute all mom here.💕

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4 years ago

I could not agree more. Nothing can beat a mother's love.

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4 years ago

I always told her that she can tell me anything. That she can tell me if she have a crush or if she have a problem so that i can help her

Sanaol supportive 😂

Kidding aside, communication is indeed vital between parents and children. Specially during adolescent years, parents should build bridges pf communication between them and their children. Teenagers tends to be more confident and at ease to share everything with their peers and hides it from their parents. Most of the time getting teenagers to talk may seem as futile as extracting water from a dry well. And when this happens, parents usually concludes that their children are rejecting them or that they don't want them to be involved in their children's lives though in fact, during these times children need their parents more than ever.

There are several reasons why us children are reluctant to tell our parents what's on our minds. First, parents seem to be unapproachable (and it's good that you are not like this). Second, instead of listening to the whole story before reacting, parents tends to reprimand their children and even say unpleasant things at times. Third, sometimes parenta tell us that they won't get mad but after hearing the whole story they will still be upset. Fourth, sometimes they tell their friends or relatives about problems that children opens to them and as a result children lose their confidence and trust.

Children tend to open up to their parents when they are assured that their thoughts and feelings will not be met with ridicule or criticism.

P.S. Thank you for sharing your wonderful story about parenting 💕

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4 years ago

Thank you for the very long comment esciisc😂,seriously i am happy reading your comments in my articles.

I really want my daughter to hide no secrets from me, and assuring her that she can tell me anything. Every problem she has, i make sure to know her story first before assesing the problem. I want her to feel that i am also a friend aside from being a mother. And i think it works well to both of us.

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4 years ago

You're welcome. It's my pleasure doing so hehe.

I think you're a great mom. I hope my mom was like that too. Oh well, I can't bring back the time.

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4 years ago

Moms have their own way of raising their child. I think your mom did a great job raising you..

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4 years ago

Probably.....

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4 years ago

Yes article is informative

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4 years ago

Thank you sarmad.. Do not forget to say ilove you to your mother.

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4 years ago

I am deeply inlove and have greatly amazed by the fact that you have overcome the struggles of being a mother miss damelindz. You did not let yourself lose hope for your daughter. I am sure that you will do anything for her. Isn't that right miss Damelindz?

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4 years ago

Definitely lou1e. I will give evrything to her, even my life.

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