• STOP TOXIC POSITIVITY.
The notion might be unrealistic and over estimating the idea of excess positivity. The truth is, it does not just lay in the platform of being a metaphor. False positivity conceals. It is avoidance, an abandonment. It drains us out causing us to forcefully dwell into a life where we are all facing upwards even submerged in mud. Simply to say, it brings the fear to feel. It fosters the comfort within sugarcoating, bright but dull solutions and the continuous escape from what we are supposed to be fixing. Yes, it kills. It empties the quality of life that we should be having.
Who said being sad is bad? Why does it when we cry, we are all told to hush and cheer up? Isn't darkness a place where we find rest?
It is never wrong to embrace the dim lights of our lives. We are all humans and has the tendency to break and let our facades down. In these moments, we are always being told to look for the beauty and light of every moments that it already led us into avoiding to feel anything except joy. The thing is, we are forcing ourselves to be better when we can't. We push ourselves to be the best version of what we want to be when we are all in pieces.
The point is, at some point of our lives, we must let ourselves be vulnerable. It is fine to embrace pain, to admit failure, and to feel every little feeling that human were supposed to have. Positivity alone is false optimistism. It does not and will never lead us into a life full of lessons, experience, and drive for success. It is important to grasp the idea in avoiding this kind of toxicity. If you are not experiencing this kind of struggle then learn how to be sensitive with other people's challenges. Why not instead of forcing them stop weeping, be a shoulder to cry on? Make them feel that you are aware, and do empathize. Comfort without words are still comfort. We don't have to blabber about the light, bright, rainbows and unicorns. It's just have to be us, genuinely listening without pushing them to became immediately better.
Why not be someone who does not invalidate negative feelings?
We must learn to consider all feelings as something that is a part of us. Let us not kill. Instead, promote the quality of life that everybody deserves. A life that everyone are not terrified to express. Negativity is naturally a part of our puzzles. It builds, fosters, and produces a better version of who we are as we learn lessons from it. It is a learning process. We are all entitled to a right to be us, whether it is in a dark or bright side.
All feelings are valid, so are you.
[ Hi read.cash family! It's been awhile since the last time I posted here. I've been really busy with school and stuff (っ˘̩╭╮˘̩)っ but I hope you guys still welcome me here. Have a good day! ]
