Pretentious society
14 August, Sunday, 2022.
Today is a great day of my favourite month August because it's independence day of our country and the weather is also fine with charming cloudy sky . It is expected to be rain soon.In its joy i thought about writing an article i was trying to write from quite long time but i could not do it from business but now i have got free time so let's start writing.
We live in a society where mostly people are so pretentious. They just tend to be someone or something which they are not. It's not only confined to a particular act or something rather it's about the psyche and persona of individuals in order to get liked by others.Feigning and faking personality may get you the clout but not the pure proud feeling ever because that feeling only comes from realism instead of fake personality
let's see this pompous behaviour of people from a vast and diverge point of view. Back then i happened to interact with a dude who bragged about his disease. He was narrating that in a way as if he was so superior than other normal humans. He was be like "i got the toughest disease, guess what?" on asking he replied in a bragged manner "i have cancer". i really felt sorry for him unlike himself to feel bad about it. It's just crazy how people feel proud about certain things upon which they should be ashamed or sorry.
BEING PRETENTIOUS & GATEKEEPING YOUR FAVOURITE STUFFS.
it's kind of difficult to put in but i will try my best to make you understand. It's my personal experience that if i don't gatekeep my favourite song, movie or show and tell others about it, the chances are high that i would start developing hate about that particular stuff when that song or movie get the extra recognition. You know it's sort of like liking only underrated things.
On the other hand keeping your favourite things to yourself only does not work always. Sometimes you gotta Share the experience and warmth of being in love with that something specific to someone else in order to have even greater experience. But it happens merely when you are doing this with the right person you feel comfy around. I hope it makes sense what I'm saying. For instance some people share their music playlist publicly to be renowned by their superior music taste (which is universally done and told by everybody that they got the best music taste). And that pretentious behaviour screws up the whole experience of anything whether good or bad.
Now if i start picking pretentious behaviour in moral values in this world,there are so many examples like i have literally seen people helping poors in order to get a humble recognition in society and on social media. That's not virtue of course it goes wasted when you do it for the fame. It has no importance.
we should not be so showy in our actions and do good doings without being noticed because it's reward is bigger than our expectations. Being humble is considered to be the most courteous manner among all moral values among humans. It's very rare to see bountiful people who don't appear ostentatious and the ones who don't act showy deserve all the happiness of this world.
