Did Your Wife Or Husband Know About Your Financial Aspect Of Life?

Did Your Wife Or Husband Know About Your Financial Aspect Of Life?

This was discussed during our Sunday school service today in the church. It was a simple topic and a topic which happened to be real and truly what is happening around the four corners of the walls. In any home today, there is evidence of either lacking trust or being trusted. 

Many men do have the habit of hiding their accounts from their wives. This may be as a result of how their wives do behave when it comes to the aspect of money. Some women cannot see their husbands account being boosted and when this happens, they tend to make sure they empty the account. This would be the time when they would be asking for one thing or the other. The fact remains that women are just like that. They force their husbands to act the way they are acting. Hiding their accounts after receiving their salaries would be the best option for them. Some men can go to the extent of deleting their account statement/alert from their phones so that their wives would not be able to know the money in their account or how much they are earning in their working places. 

It.can also happen in the aspect of the man hiding something from the wives. They may have the mind of cheating on the wives which will hide their account details. After receiving their salaries, all they have to do is to tell their wives that their salaries have been paid and will not tell them the exact amount. 

Come to think of it, women also have the same behavior. They have to lie for their husbands just to satisfy their needs instead of revealing the exact amount they have received. This may be as a result of too many demands from their husbands. Some men do depend on their wives to survive and when this happened, the wives had to lie about their account details. Sometimes, to satisfy their other needs which they have to do secretly, they would not allow their husbands to know about their account details and instead would tend to delete any alerts. 

This means both the men and the women have the same characteristics. They don't want to reveal how much they are receiving or how much is in their account. This is not the best. We should remember that marriage is for better or for worse and having this kind of how, shows that we must have to trust and believe in each other to the fullest. 

What do you think is the cause of this?

Have you heard of trust before? Yes.. isn't it? When there is a lack of trust in the home, it might cause this to happen. This is why we must trust each other as husband and wife. Trust is very much important in a relationship or marriage. A home without trust cannot last longer but will soon or later crumble.

A crumbling marriage is a crying marriage and so believing in each other or relying on each other should be our major place in life. Since there are children and so we have to keep the trust within us to keep our children on the right track. 

Also, have you heard of communication before? Yes, when there is lack of communication between the husband and the wife, this may cause either the husband or the wife to behave this way by hiding his account details or by failing to tell each other the amount they are receiving as salary. Communication is very important in a relationship just to make such a relationship to remain stronger and stronger every day.

There supposed to be love among husband and wife and also trust. Trust each other since marriage is built on trust. Show your wife or your husband your account details. Let him or her know how much you are receiving so that the relationship will keep on moving smoothly. 

Let your mode of demanding change as demanding too much is not the best option. When you know how to manage, you will know how to save for the better. Demanding unnecessarily does not make or build a happy home but break the brick that holds the foundation gradually until it collapses finally. So, be sure to make your family a happy one and embrace love and trust to the very end. 

Good day to you all...