A Problem Shared Is A Problem Half Solved
When you share your problems with the one who is closed to you or the one who you may or must have confided on, it is half solved if not totally. When you tried hard to keep your problem(s) within you, I bet, you may die before your time. This is why we must have someone through which we can confide on which may be our trustworthy friends, or our pastors because they can help you to pray to find solutions to the immediate problems or your parents who can help you financially and can give you lots of advice on how to solve the problem you have at hand. This means, you must have someone who you can trust, although there are many today who we cannot trust or cannot be trusted because of their attitude towards keeping of words. Many have a leakage mouth and so, your problem which you want to keep might become public or viral.
There are two kinds of people in this world in problems related issues. The one who keeps problems to himself, while the other is the one who tells out his or her problems to people in other to get a quick solution.
Shyness: Many today are just too shy to tell out their problems to people who love them, Orr, to people close to them because they find it difficult to trust people around. This cannot make your problems eradicate but will make your problems increasing.
Fear of people relating your problems out to people: Most people who are not ready to tell out their problems may be that their problems are filled or are revolved around evils or wickedness. Even if you have done evil, there is a need for forgiveness and when you tell your problem out, you shall be victorious. A
Shame: They will try to keep such problems within them just because of the shame it will bring to such a person. He or she will have the mind of his or her problem, bringing shame to him or her. We should all remember that been it shame or disgrace, it will be for just a while and then everything will just die down. So, why are you keeping it? The best is to tell it out for you to be free or your problem to be solved.
There are some problems even after being told cannot be solved. These kinds of problems also do not warrant keeping because people are out there who are ready to show you, love. People with HIV AIDS hardly tell out their situations, but when they do, they can seriously have advice from different angles on how to take care of it. Yes...people like these need to love and care. You may be thinking that people will run away from you, but that's not true. They will come close to you and make you feel at home, or make you feel as if you encounter no problem in you.
So, no matter serious your problem might be, don't wait to keep it within you but tell it out to people because a problem told out is half solved.
No problem is too big not to be solved but shame to share has caused many people to go to their graves earlier than they should.