as a human being, we have a lot of wants in life, we want this and that. we often forget that it is still okay not to have them right away. it is just one of those things that we tend to covet because others might have them, our friends might have one of those and maybe the celebrity we idolize promotes it or its one of the trendy stuff that hypes the people nowadays we have to be very carefu; especially when it is not essential and if we have things to prioritize, especially when you are in a budget and you think that maybe it is just one of those things that may be satisfying at first but you will end up regretting your decision because there is still a lot of payment on your bill, you are on a hectic budget bt you just cant control your want. it is very important to knnow that there are priorirties in life , there are things that must to be put first above everything, because, you see, the world isn't full of things that will always favor your side, maybe sometimes thre are just stuff that may lead to worse. for ecxample, you the dute for your bill to be paid is comming but you have this favorite shoe that is on sale on the mall. which one would you choose right? a temporary happiness that may result to a payment is due and maybe syou having a bad situation after or , pay the necessary bill then save up for a shoe next time. you see, you have to be able to weigh things and contrl your fetish on your sometimes. you have to be very careful in your decisions, not only in tis one but in a generalized decision in your life. the hardest thing to fight is regret especially when you cannot do about it anymore, like you cannot change it after. for example, you will make a decison that may affect you for a lifetime. just like choosing your partner, you just dont want a man because he is handsome,because he say words that would make you happy but just dont act on it, right? you dont want a man that may hurt you in the future, you need a man that will stay no matter how hurt they are. well, this doesnt apply to everyone but its just a statement that in life, wants are just temporary, you dont have to settle for a want, you settle for a nee, you dont have to go somewhere looking for soemthinga nd working hard so that you could buy your want while neglecting the need, of course, you have to secure the needd first before going to the want. there are times when you just have to be sure that all of the things that will happen doesnt affect you badly. there is this one time that i have encountered with a friend, she just want anything in the store, and buying everything she wants while on a budget, at the end, she wasn't able to buy her needs and ends up borrowing money from me instead, and those wants aren't even useful, its just cute designs but may eventually end up in a closet never to be used until she would have a time to decorate it. i just cant really understand heer sometimes, she just acts immaturely while being uindependent from her parents, there may be a little time to change and think about it but also, there are still cons and pros . the pros is that you can have a satisfying feeling of pampering or giving a prce to yourself, but just make sure the price wont be turned into a punishment, you dont want a short happiness right just to be exchanged with a serious problem in the end, so