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 There are things in life that we must acquire in order to be able to face every challenge and reach your goal and be successful. Sometimes, we must have this because this would be able to help us along the way. We don’t know when or how it would come to us, so we better be prepared because success comes with different forms and with a difficult path. We have thought about a lot of things that may help us, so this is just one of the things that we must have in whatever we do or whatever goals we may have in life. We may apply this in academics, in work, or in any situation to be able to surpass any difficulties. We know that we must be able to have experiences that would benefit us from whatever we have learned and went through. We do not know when would be the time that these things might help so we must continue to do things that would help us become better. We have been told by these things numerous times, yet these things might be also hard to apply sometimes. We have to be constantly reminded of these things so that we would be able to get motivated and will do it whatever things may happen. Sometimes, there are things in life that would just happen without any notice and we would be caught off guard and we would make rash decisions without any thinking much of it, risking a lot of things, and even the results that we have longed for. Our life is a story to tell and we do not want to have a story of failure. Here are the things that we should acquire in life.  

 Productive habits  

On a day to day basis, we may think that it is just an ordinary day and nothing else would be affected by it because we are just living in the moment but actually, everything depends on what you are doing in the present. What you are doing daily results in an effect in the future. It is better to start having these productive habits that would help you improve each day. It is better to start having these habits that would make you a little closer to your goal each day. The little things we do would become bigger in the future. For example, you are spending your time all day watching movies, at the end of the month, you will realize how big of an impact those hours that you thought are just nothing. You will then start to blame yourself for being lazy and you will think that you are worthless but if you spend your little time each day on being productive, it will make you feel better. If you go on for a short exercise each day, it will eventually help your physical health than doing nothing for the whole month. Having productive habits really counts in life. The simple little things that we do every day will help us someday.   

 Sacrifice  

 We need to sacrifice any little comfort in life. We get to sacrifice the things that we enjoy for a little while to be able to focus on the things that are more important. We get to sacrifice a little comfort to be able to get through it. It may be a little hard at first but know that it is very worth it at the end. We always get to go through ups and downs in order for us to be able to get on top.  there are times when people are just so lazy to sacrifice a little thing. They are willing to stay wherever they are because they can’t sacrifice any difficulties for a short amount of time. Going through difficulties or making sacrifices would be nothing when you are just going to have your dream in the future. The little sacrifice that you went through would help you reach your goal in life. I have a friend who is not with the idea of sacrificing things because why would you let yourself suffer if. If it will be really given to you, why not wait for your time to come?  I think that concept is just an excuse and it uses the strategy of the man in a story where he just waits for the apple to fall on his mouth instead of getting it by reaching his hand to it. People who do not want any inconvenience do not want success. People should think of possibilities and endure struggles in life than continue on being a lazy person waiting for nothing.  

 Plan  

 This is very applicable to anything. If we want to achieve something, we must have a plan. If we want to start a business, we must start a plan. We need a strategy in order for us to get there in the right way and will not end up being in a mess. We do not have all the time in the world to mess and fool around. We have to be very sure that we are not wasting our time, we are not wasting our effort, and definitely, we are not wasting money because everything will just go to waste. It would also be very safe if we have a back-up plan. If plan A is not working or would not work, we have to have another plan to be able to continue with the process. It's all about mind work and effort in every little thing to make things possible. Being able to plan for things in life is very rewarding. It is one of those things that you would certainly be proud of and be thankful for being able to know a solution or a way out of the hardships that you face.   

Determination  

The things mentioned above would just be useless if we have no determination. The thing that would keep us going no matter what. It would be possible to have productive habits, to be able to sacrifice and to have a plan but all these things would just be useless if you don’t have the determination. You could just be able to plan from the start, you could be able to sacrifice little things halfway through, but give up in the end after all the productive habits that you have done. You may still be able to live with your productive habits day by day, but the thought of getting it until you will finally have it is done. There was this thing that I read quite a lot, don’t stop if you’re tired, stop if you’re done. We may have encountered a lot of things similar to this one but although we know about this thing, it is still possible that we will stop halfway because we don't have the determination to get things done. There are a lot of inspirational stories about attaining success that they have the determination to succeed. Even if it cost them a hundred failures, they are willing to get through it because they have this determination and they know that they can do it.  

 Gain knowledge   

 A lot of people want to be successful, hopes to be successful but don’t know how and where to start. It would be very helpful to gain knowledge about the field that you want to succeed. For example, you want to be successful in business, then you have to read a lot about how to start, how to keep your business going, and how to stay on top of the game. You can also gain knowledge by listening to an audiobook, or by watching videos. Other people would have a subscription or have online courses to attend in order to know more about their field. Of course, this doesn’t apply to things that would require you to have experienced, like being a surgeon, you don’t have to read everything, you also have to do and practice on it. In things like improving your writing, improving the way you talk in front of people, or whatever goal you have, it always helps to gain knowledge and learn more about it.  

Time management  

It would really be of help to know what are the things to prioritize first. Time management would save us from wasting a lot of our time on things that would not be profitable for us. In having time management, we would not let a day go to waste. We would not let our precious time be spent on things that are unnecessary. When before we like to have fun and amusement, then now, it may be the time to change. It may be time to make use of all the things that would help us in any way to become successful. We are already in a time where we have to know and set priorities instead of goofing around. Weel, other people may be at this very point be wasting time, but we don’t have to be the envy at them, we would be able to go that point where we don’t have to put in all effort because we already in a time where we are successful. It is okay to be focused on your goal now and set aside the things for entertainment, for fun, or for just hanging around, making yourself comfortable. Other people may have been to a point where they can have fun without worrying about what they should eat tomorrow or where they should get the payment for the next month. All we have to do is focus on ourselves and set priorities and spend our time wisely. 

 

Don't be afraid to fail  

  

Everyone has their own success story and don’t compare yourself to them because you might not know what they went through in order for them to be where they are right now. Don't be afraid to fail because you are just getting near to success because if you want to succeed, be ready to fail. The most important thing is, you know how to get back up and start again. You don’t have to be upset for not being able to succeed for the first time, for the second time, or for countless times. We are not perfect, and we are still learning on how things must be done. It is good for us to have experienced so that we would not what are the things that we should avoid, what are the things that we should do, and what are the things that we should continue to do in life. As they would say, the experience is the best teacher and we must be excited about what are the things it will teach us. Don't be afraid to fall because there are always people out there who would help you in one way or another. If not, then be the one who would help yourself back at your feet again. It will beat you right away if you would be scared. Just remember to have a plan to start with, no matter how many plans you’ve got right there, I know there is one that would work.  

  

  

  

After all the things that I have mentioned, I hope there is something that you have learned. There is a lot of advice out there and it’s up to you what suits you best.  it’s up to you what are the things that you would like to do in order to achieve success. Whatever the things that you are going to do, I hope that you would be able to achieve success. We do not have to be perfect in one take. It would be boring for us to get it right away. When the process is long, and when the journey is tiring, it will all become a sweet lesson at the end. It will make us happy with the thought of getting through everything and being able to live a life that we always dreamed of.   

 

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