Internal conflicts are what make us develop and change, and they arise because our beliefs and attitudes that we have adopted, through education and adaptation to society, conflict with our inner truth, which is not legitimate. It is a mismatch of our desires and needs, and the resistance we feel is the key to finding the truth - we want to do something (or don’t want to) and don’t understand why and then resist until we understand. Resistance is a defense mechanism, a way to stop ourselves, to prevent action, because we do not discern what is right. Our acquired beliefs tell us that we should act one way or another, and our being tells us something else - we need to do nothing and try to understand the voice of our truth. And then we can decide consciously - whether we will act the way everyone thinks is right, or the way we feel.
Moral conflict
The conflict of conscience and consciousness in us creates moral conflicts. People who have strong principles tend to follow them without dilemma and do terrible things, convinced to act in the most right way, in the name of God, justice, parts… Moral conflicts force us to reconsider the principles and to keep consciousness - what is well, it is not always right, what is right is not always good for us or for others. When we lie and cover up, in order to spare someone's feelings, we know in part that we are doing the right thing, while at the same time our conscience bites us, because it is not good and right to lie and cover up. And when the time comes for the truth to be revealed, we will have to face the consequences. If we lied in order to avoid or postpone those consequences, it will be facing our own weakness, and if we lied out of higher interests, we will forgive ourselves more easily.
Conflict of sexuality
If you believe that you should be a heterosexual and monogamous person, and within that framework you fail to have relationships that fulfill you, or you cultivate a semi-conscious belief that sex is "dirty" and "sinful", it will bring frustration and dissatisfaction, as well as the inability to you enjoy sex without feeling guilty and without fighting with yourself. It is not easy to accept yourself, especially if you completely deviate from social norms and if you are a homosexual and polygamous person, and it is not easy to clear up with wrong beliefs about the sinfulness of sex. Today, we are generally encouraged to explore, to know ourselves, and to be who we are, and sex is recognized as an important and vital part of our life energy and joy. Sexual awareness and liberation is one of the segments of self-knowledge and personal development.
Love conflict
Love relationships are especially confusing, because they provoke our unconscious contents, which need to be clarified and resolved. In an emotional relationship, we do not know how to deal with our own vulnerability and exposure, we have too high expectations and we are not open enough to achieve good communication with another person (who feels similar to us). Two people, carried away and taken by surprise by the intensity of emotions, clash with each other and with each other, in an attempt to protect themselves and keep the boundaries, and feelings push us into merging and intimacy, which scares us. If we understand love as the most powerful force of enlightenment and personal development, we will be able to find balance in ourselves and in our relationship with our partner, to accept vulnerability and openness, and to build trust and acceptance.