We are human beings who want to be valued

I record everything that comes to my mind that I want to write to you in a letter in a notebook, so as not to forget. Then, when I pick up pen and paper to write you a letter, the words flow like a stream, the sentences flow like a river, and then the letter emerges like a "sea of love".

A large part of the society often complains that "nobody values us". If you ask most people, they say they do, but I think the vast majority of people think it is self-worth to overvalue others and expect reciprocity from them, but this is the biggest "self-worthlessness" because a person is both stingy and worthless if he does not understand the value we give and withholds his love from us, which does not cost anything in proportion to his power, even if not in the same way. Because the most important characteristic of being human is to share what we have and others don't have with those who need it. But if the person we are going to give will spend what we are going to give ungratefully, even love, it is best not to give it. Or if instead of thanking us when we give it to them, they will overstep the boundaries by saying "give this and give that", the best value is not to give it.

Our "values" are very important, be it people or traditions. In general, our society tends to value what the rulers value and ignore what they do not value. Not everyone, but many people are like that. However, valuing the greatest ruler and doing what he says adds infinite value and meaning to us.

Like every being, we are human beings who want to be "valued". But people who see that we don't value ourselves and that we don't have a stance usually don't value us. Or it means that people who overvalue us expect something from us. Isn't it the best proof of this that our society, which overvalues executives, does not value them when they leave their posts? If we remember the joke that says "Eat my fur", respect is not for the person but for the office. But people who give power to their office with their personalities are not forgotten. Unfortunately, most of these values were not fully appreciated at the time they lived.

Regardless of our age, we must always improve ourselves by valuing ourselves first. We must always improve at every age with the motto "two days are wasted". The easiest way to improve is to take school seriously and read books even when school is over, we need to reach a level of knowledge that will make good observations and understand people with their attitudes and behaviors even if they don't say a word. This is what I call "self-worth". To live by taking lessons from all of them without caring about anyone's evaluation of us, without looking at praise, without being upset by criticism.

If the person in front of us continues to give us the message "you are worthless" despite our warnings, our duty is to distance ourselves from such people and dive into useful books that give us the message "you are the most valuable person" as we read, to make the best use of time and to be the "most valuable person". Do I make myself clear?

Dear friend,

Today, in a time when material values are at the forefront, people's "value" measures are also changing, but the facts do not change. The fact that what makes a person human is "love and respect for people without discrimination" is as old as the history of humanity and will not change as long as people exist. Knowing this, the value we will give to ourselves, our family and our colleagues will make us who we are and we can only be distant to people who "do not know value".