We know that the desire to love and care for others is a hard-wired and deep-hearted because the fulfillment of this wish increases the happiness level. Expressing love for others benefits not just the recipient of affection, but also the person who delivers it. The need to be loved can be considered as one of our most basic and fundamental needs. -Ashhar Firdausi
Love has become such a loaded and overused word that it has almost lost all its meaning. These days people just normally use the term love to describe how they like someone or something.
What is love?
Love is a deep feeling of affection or attachment to an individual. It is formed through the bond and time you spent together. When we love someone we care about them and we give them our time and attention. It's easy to love but it's complex on individuals execution because we have different definitions and different expressions of love. It also depends on the connection established with the person.
Elements of Love
These elements are the grounds for someone to be considered as we love. Although many would agree that all three elements are important, the love we give still varies from the bond we have with the person.
1) Care
If we love someone, we care about them, their feelings, and their wellbeing. We consider their emotions and we check on them to make sure they are doing good.
2) Admiration
Admiration is your likings for someone it could be internal or external it may be their physicality, their personality, their action or how they think.
3) Desire
Desire is wanting to be around the person you love and spend more time with them.
5 Languages of Love
We have different ways of giving and receiving love because we have different experiences, needs and languages of love. It is said that it is important that you know and your loved ones your love language to make the right approach on how you will feel that you are loved.
1) Words of Affirmation
It is about expressing their love through spoken words, they are the person who is already happy receiving compliments, love notes, or cute messages saying I love you's.
2) Quality Time
You are expressing your love by giving them your undivided attention, you love being around your loved ones watching movies, playing games or shopping together.
3) Acts of Service
They believe in actions speak louder than words, they express their love by doing nice things. They already appreciate small things like making coffee or cooking for their loved ones.
4) Physical Touch
This is when love is expressed then received through physical affection. People that have this enjoy kisses and cuddles.
5) Receiving Gifts
They are the kind of people that look at gifts as a symbol of love. They appreciate someone through receiving gifts, they treasure the gift but they really appreciate the time and effort that you put into it.
We experience different types of love throughout our lives; friendship, family love, romantic love and sometimes unrequited love. know that there are people that just come into our lives to let us feel that certain type of love and you will experience more of it, so just love with all your heart it doesn't matter if we differ on how we define and express love as long as you are happy and you make your beloved ones loved its all that matters. Love is free so go on and spread that positive feeling.
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