10 Rules of the "Law of Attraction" to Find the Love of Your Life
Finding the love of your life has never been easier.
If you learn how to activate and use this unlimited power contained in you, then you can be anyone, do anything, and have anything. Here are 10 ways to use the law of attraction in order to find and keep your soul mate.
Be very clear about what exactly you want from a loved one.
Every failed relationship will give you clues about what exactly you want from the perfect partner. The problem is that many women and men focus on the negative rather than the positive. For example, by saying that you don't need a man who "puts his work above the relationship," you are focusing on a man who puts work above love, and this desire you unconsciously weave into your energy.
The good news is that if you know what you don't want, then you know what you want. Your power as a creator lies in your ability to focus on clear and concise thoughts that allow you to communicate to the Universe in a very specific way what you want. ("I need a man who will put my interests above all else and will love me selflessly.")
You can determine whether your attitude is positive or negative based on your feelings. It's simple: if it makes you feel better, then it's positive, and if it makes you feel worse, it's negative. If you think that thoughts contain negativity are coming to you, just mentally turn around and start focusing on the positive. You will immediately feel better, and love will be favorable to you.
The dream always, every moment
If you're ready for love, then the best thing you can do is dedicate yourself to dreaming about the perfect person for you. As soon as you imagine your perfect partner, the Universe will take this image as an indication of who exactly needs to be created for you. In your imagination, you can create and refine the desired relationship until you reach the ideal.
Once this ideal image emerges in your mind, keep thinking about it over and over again until you find it in reality. The power of your imagination is unstoppable and can change your whole life by giving it true love.
Love Yourself
If you don't love yourself, then you shouldn't expect someone else to love you. When we condemn or criticize ourselves too zealously, we generate energy that pushes other people away from us. Excessive self-criticism is essentially a negative energy that turns potential soulmates away from us.
On the other hand, love is attractive in itself and can attract potential partners to us. Make a list of ten characteristics that you like about yourself, and hang that list in a place where you can see it every day. The items on the list do not play a role, it is only important that they will easily evoke good feelings for yourself in you.
The more you focus on what you love about yourself, the more self-love you will feel. Others will love you too, simply because everyone really enjoys being around people full of love.
Say no to envy
Actually, envy is a natural feeling; you experience it when you see that someone has something that you want and that you don't have. However, you will not achieve love with envy. Envy is a negative emotion, it interferes with the embodiment of your desires.
Instead of coming out of envy, try to determine if you see a person around you who lives the same dream as you, and if you find such a person, then consider that your dream has become closer. So forget about envy, focus on love, and bless fate for letting love into human relationships. In this way, you let the universe know that you, too, want to feel this feeling.
Never give up
If the law of attraction doesn't work, it's primarily because people give up their desires. It's like ordering your favorite dish and leaving the café before they bring the order. Your order is being prepared, but if you lose hope of waiting for it, you will never receive it.
People become disillusioned with love if those they meet don't meet their expectations, and if they don't believe and see evidence that true love will ever come. Out of disappointment or fear of disappointment, they give up the love destined for them by fate, never knowing what they have lost. The main point related to the law of attraction is that once you realize that you want something specific, you will have to desire it until it is embodied in your life.
Don't be in doubt
We live in a good universe that gives us the opportunity to realize all our dreams and desires. One of the biggest obstacles to achieving what you want is doubt. We want something, but we doubt it can be achieved. That is, in fact, only doubt prevents us.
Knowledge is a positive energy and opens the door to attraction. Doubt is a negative energy and closes this door. If you manage to tune in to the attraction of a soul mate, you will have a feeling that you will meet him/her very soon.
Enjoy life right now
Don't wait for love to find you to start living life to the fullest. You will attract the same person as you are: if you are a sofa vegetable, you will only be able to attract the same sofa vegetable. If you need a loved one who lives an active life, skis, and loves to read, you better start jogging, learn to climb hillsides, and keep track of the latest book novelties.
Don't wait to meet someone to live to your own pleasure. Start a new, better life right now, and then you will stand out so much among the crowd that you will definitely attract the attention of an equally extraordinary person.
Try on an image from your future
Let's imagine you as a single person from the present and you-partner/partner or you-spouse in a few years. One of the best ways to use the law of attraction to get the attention of the perfect guy or perfect girl is to become a person who is already in a relationship.
Think about yourself in the present moment and yourself in the ideal relationship. How are you different? Who do you become when you enter into a relationship? Perhaps your answer would be, "I'm becoming calm, confident, loving, and kind." And this answer of yours will be a goal for you, a key to who you should become.
Don't wait for such a relationship to become a reality; First of all, you must become a person who already has the right qualities. This includes, in particular, preparing a place for your loved one: free up half of the closet and chest of drawers for him, reglue faded wallpaper, etc. Think about ways in which you can change your life to best match your best partners.
Get your beliefs in order
Analyze your beliefs about love and get rid of those that are not aimed at creating and maintaining your ideal relationship (for example, "I do not have the necessary attractiveness in me", "I earn too little", "The best have already been snapped up" and others).
The universe can make all of your beliefs come true, so if you don't believe in what you really want, then consider it time to let go of that disbelief and work on your beliefs. The universe is very sensitive to your feelings; if you feel unworthy of something, the universe immediately takes it into account in practice.
Don't try to figure out how it's going to happen.
Your task is to clearly and clearly define what you most desire, and to achieve the embodiment of your desires in all the ways described above. Your task is not to figure out how your happiness will be achieved. Don't get carried away with the process, you need a result.
We live in a magical universe that can give you exactly what you want, and in the most amazing and even incredible way. But there is no need to ask how it works: such interference can become an obstacle to the law of attraction. Forget about any ideas about how this will happen, and let the universe create its own magic.
That doesn't mean you'll have to sit at home and do nothing. You will have to act on your intuition. Intuition is the sudden feeling that you need to go to a coffee shop on the corner, even if you don't want to eat or drink, or that you definitely need to refuel your car right now at a gas station in two blocks.
The law of attraction communicates with you through your instincts, so make sure you listen to the voice of intuition and are guided by its instructions. First of all, be ready to accept any circumstances as fact, because you never know in advance what the Universe has prepared for you.