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Insecurities *Are you often disappointed on the way you look? Don't you like what you see in the mirror? Is it about your height? Weight? Body shape? or Face Complexion?*
Well, most of us, especially teenagers are often insecured with our ***appearances and skills.*** I myself is insecured. I think, all of us experienced and/or continue experiencing it. Even those people who we think are beautiful enough also have their insecurities. Especially when we tend to **compare** ourselves to other people. It's seems very easy to go overboard and worry about our appearance too much. We girls, for example, believe that being attractive means being like those super models we often see in magazines. Never mind that those stunning photos were airbrushed to perfection or enhanced on a computer. We wanna be like them. Those perfect body shapes, pointed nose, stunning smiles, clear perfect skin, all the perfection in the world! And comparing ourselves in magazines might leave us lots of insecurities. A lot of people even considered resorting to cosmetic surgery to correct physical flaws. But what do you think about yourself? Did you also got to the point where you badly wanna change your flaws and just change all of it to perfection? *This may be cliche but I'm gonna say it any way. This words helped me overcome my insecurities at least.* **JUST KNOW YOUR WORTH.** Think about this. Have you seen yourself in a *distorted mirror?* You may laugh at yourself there. You may even look bigger or smaller. But either way, the image is inaccurate. You know you don't really look like that. When you try to see yourself in an *accurate normal mirror,* you definitely look a lot more beautiful. It's the same with people around you. We may think that we are horribly ugly, just as we are in a distorted mirror*.* But there's a good chance that others don't see us the way as negatively as we see ourselves, just like with the accurate mirror. They may even know your worth more than you do. They find you beautiful and attractive, even when you yourself doesn't believe you are. ***Remember:*** ***You are beautiful just the way you are*** **❣️❣️** Feel free to comment down below your insights. Alsk, you can check this out if you want to read and learn more about this topic. ☺️ https://www.jw.org/finder?srcid=jwlshare&wtlocale=E&prefer=lang&pub=yp1 `Here are some other Written Works from me...` **Binurong Point —Catanduanes Journey** https://read.cash/@bbang/binurong-point-highlight-of-my-catanduanes-journey-d24c6108 **Sense it. (Poem)** https://read.cash/@bbang/sense-it-01723d29 **Lost In Time** https://read.cash/@bbang/lost-in-time-845e7864 **Different Versions of YOU Exists in all of our Minds** https://read.cash/@bbang/different-versions-of-you-exists-in-all-of-our-minds-b53faa16
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Yeah that was a big.matter, know your worth and remove all the negatives thoughts in your life, to make you feel better and have a better life.
Indeed. Those insecurities we have, prevents us from having enough self confidence and sometimes even doing what we really want. We don't need negativity in our life. Let's be happy. We deserve to be. ☺️
Yes,have our own perspective in life and not comparing to others
Yeah. It's important to refrain from comparing. We just have to know that everyone is unique.
youre right, better mind our own life and how to make it better
Yeah. And we should also not forget to show our love and affection to those people around us. Maybe they're going through some stuffs we don't know about. Those simple gestures can help a lot 🤗💕
Yeah we always do that.
I also had a thing about low self-esteem until I realized how God created me! Loving ourselves is the best thing we could do to be better in everything :)
Indeed. God created all of us in our own unique way. We are all beautiful so there's really no need to be insecured. And yes loving ourselves is the best thing we could do to overcome it😊
This is a perfect article for some who have low self-esteem and self confidence as well. I believe that we are all beautiful. We have our own kind of beauty. Some may not be able to see it, but maybe there are people who sees the real beauty of you inside and out.
Very well said bb. We may sometimes think that we're not beautiful and don't have all the bests in the world, but someone out there think we do. We just have to believe in ourselves and be confident even with those flaws. I'm glad that you think that way as well. Let's spread postivity✊❤️❤️❤️
Spreading positivity and encouraging every woman to learn to accept and love their flaws are some things I usually do. I want every woman in this world to look on the bigger picture, and to look on the best part of themselves rather than on the worse. ♥️
Yeah. Women empowerment. But of course, we should help not only those who have the same gender as we do. Lets do it for all the people. Equity.
I guess it depends on your life how much time you have to think about what you look like. I never had the time to think about it although I know I look different and people didn't like my looks. What bothered me more (and still does) is a body that causes me pain 24/7. I rarely look in the mirror and there's not a single one that shows my whole body (only one in the house). If you seriously believe adults, elderly people are more happy with their body, the wrinkles, thin skin, a ruined body after giving birth, etc you are wrong. In 40 years you wish you would look the way you look now and no one likes to look like a model. This is an idea only girls in the USA grow up with.
Yeah I guess so. As a teenager, I definitely got all the time in the world to look at myself tho. Teenagers nowadays often use social media to brag about their beautiful faces, bodies and all which looks like those of the magazines. So, we tend to compare ourselves to them. @wakeupkitty, you may think you look different from others but not alk people think of you as a lovely unique one. I swear. You may just didn't know it but there's someone out there who sees the real beauty you've got. I don't really believe that adults don't have their own insecurities. You're right. Being young is a blessing. It lasts for just a short period of time. And that's what I want to tell to young ones with this article. Anyways, thank you for sharing your thoughts and words of wisdom here. I really appreciate it. ❣️
I hope all people, no matter young or old, will try not to judge by looks only. To me, behavior is more important and the sound of a voice for example. Indeed time passes by fast and before you know you cry about what became out of you and how you wasted your life. Be happy with who you are since that is the only person who will always stick around with you. 💕🍀
I hope so too. And I agree, the inner beauty of a person is what makes him/her genuinely beautiful. Yeah. So we should not waste our time complianing thus we should spend time cultivating our inner beauty and appreciate the things we have now. Wow. Those words have an impact to me. I will surely take that. It seems that you have experienced lots of things already. And I'm thankful that you're sharing your life advices to us here. ❤️❤️
I realized that we all have different views on insecurities. Yes most are being insecure with their physical appearance even they are almost perfect. They are not contented on what they are and what they have. But isn't it not the less fortunate should think about insecurities? Those who have something very unussual in their appearance that is not normal for everyone. Sometimes, we people who have normal organs and complete parts of our body are the most insecured when in fact we are already perfect.
Yeah. And I think being conscious about oneself is just normal. Just not the self obsession part. We are all imperfect so we tend to do things that other people might think that is not necessary. And I got your point there. Yet, most of the time, those 'less fortunate' you say, are the ones whose genuinely happy with their lives! Well we have indeed different perspectives in life.
Exactly 😊
Oh and thank you for sharing your thoughts on this matter we have here as well. It realky helps a lot, especially for me to realize those things going on with my life 😊❣️❣️
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Yes you are right dear... We have to removed our negativity from our life... Because it can destroy our life
Yeah. Letls spread love and positivity (just not in terms of covid hahahhha lol)
Yeah It's important for us.... Be positive always
Indeed. 🤗
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This is the perfect article i need right now!Thanks for writing this,and for lighting up a hope in me. ur just full of wisdom and i adore u for that. keep writing..💙
I'm glad this article helped you in a way. This is definitely what I really need as well hehe. Those insecurities sucks. And we need lots of positivity in our lives as well.
i couldn't agree more,we're like kindred spirits hihi💙
Yeah! I think so too hahaha ❣️
Yes,we really need to remove our insecurities.We are all unique.And every individual is different therefore we are beautiful in our own way. Insecurities may sometimes lead to a negative one. So,avoid comparing ourselves to anybody because every individual is different and we are all beautiful creatures❣️
Yes. We are beautifully created in our own unique way. Everyone's outer beauty may differ but there's nothing to be insecured about. Lots of people out there surely sees the beauty that we ourselves may not. And the inner beauty is the most important one. I agree with all you just said. 😊❤️❤️
Absolutely!Physical appearance is not important,the important is having a good heart or being good all the time.Because appearance dont last forever but being a good will be.
Very well said @Ace97 ❣️ Outer beauty don't last forever indeed. We'll all experience having those wrinkles and white hairs and loose skin and all of those things we loved about our physical appearance will soon fade. Only our inner beauty and good heart will remain forever. That's why we should focus onto it more. 😊
As usual, you've rocked another article. I hold myself at the lowest esteem and sometimes it hits rock bottom. It is so hard to put yourself out of a dark place mentally. But then, in those moments I start to recall all my comforting thoughts piece by piece and it slowly pulls me into the light. Thank u for this wonderful article. ♥
Yeah. I often feel that way as well. Lalo na nung time na inaasar ako palagi nila rob hahaha. Shh ka lang ha hehe. Sometimes it's really okay but most of the time it goes overboard. Anyways, that's good. Continuously remind yourself about whats important and how people around you and Jehovah sees the good and beauty in you. I myself actually adore you so please, let go of those insecurities. They dont deserve any of your time! ❤️☺️
Yeah! Realization and Self-love is all we need
Indeed. Nevermind those social standard of beauty, we have our own unique way of defining beauty.
we should remove insecurites from our mind and body to feel contented on our own ☺️☺️ nice article bro keep up! hoping to see more of your post ☺️☺️
Yeah. We should always keep in our mind and heart that true beauty is whats inside us. We are the ones who'll define it. Not the society. Everybody is beautiful in their own unique way 😊. Anyways, thank you for appreciating this article! I hope to see some of yours too. I'll go check on it 🤗💕
Insecurities sucks.And i also hate being compared to others🙂(literally)like i have my own uniqueness and that should be the one they notice🙂But it's okay tho,jehovah sees what kind of heart we have.Don't let insecurities bring us down.Anyways bhie this is my first serious comment that related to the article😂Kasi yung iba puro ka ekekan lang HAHHAHAHA Btw,pano mo nacopy yung link ng website then change the name into "check this out"?
Yeah. Me too. But most of the time, I myself is the one who often compares other people to thyself. I guess it's the start of our adolescence period when we start to feel insecure. It's actually okay to be conscious about ourselves. But we just have to be careful not to be obsessed. And yeah, the most important thing is how Jehovah sees us. He knows our value more than anyone. Grabe ang haba na ng sinabi ko bhie hahahah. Pero I actually mean it. ☺️ And about the link, explore mo lang pag nagsusulat ka ng article dito sa RC mismo. Ihighlight lang yung text tas piliin mo yung link sign (parang infinity 😂) then paste mo link dun.
wAhhhh i guess i need to be creative on writing here HHAHAHAHA yung tipong kelangan maganda yung font or something HHAHAHAHHAHA
HAHAHA para makapang akit ka. Ng readers ha lol 😂. Pwede man. It'll make your article more interesting.
yessyuff and it'll make so much time din HAHHAHAHA pero worth it naman pag madami nagbasa.
Yeah right. Lalo na ngayon, sikat na ambebe HAHAHA
grabe sa sikat beh halos magkalapit lang din naman yung pagitan ng subscribers naten HAHHHAHAHAH pag sinubscribe kita bhie 73 na sayo, isa nalang lamang ko HAHHAHAHA dejok subscribed na palang dati muehehe
hahaha sabagay bhie. Sabi na nga kasing don't compare yourself to others 'coz you're unique eh HAHAHAH. Bala ka man di man din ako nakasub sayo HAHAHAHHA char
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