In life there are many challenges we are facing, it's not always the sweet taste of life, there are many spices that add to our life to make more tastier. To make us strong in every little struggles we encountered.

Married Life

I think the most challenging part of our lives is the everyday life we have in our partner, in my case we have no arguments every day, our adjustments is before our marriage. I think we're the couple who doesn't like to argue with small things. I will just agree what he's saying and kept quiet if he's reminding my mistakes. We are harmoniously living as her wife and he's the husband.

That's us and the photo was taken 2014, the first year he was hired as a BPO employee, from the photo we were attending their team building held in Guimaras Island. My husband will always invited me wherever event's in their workplace, I remembered that there were clustered team building it's only for the employee team building no outsiders are allowed he didn't attend that team building.

He's the one has work in between us, I'm only a plain housewife. He worked in Transcom for almost four years and decided to resign at 2018.

At 2018, he applied to this company and good thing he was hired. From that company the salary a little higher from his previous bpo company he worked.

We can buy the little cravings we have, simple home improvement like buying a couch and we bought Refrigerator because our old one is not functioning. That was in monthly payment terms only we only made our down payment for the refrigerator and the rest was monthly payments. It was the peak of pandemic when we pay the refrigerator good thing it has easy terms due to many people have lost their jobs so they have to cooperate to the people lost of jobs too until we've done our monthly payments it's fully paid at 2020. We got the ref from

December 2019 I think that was a one year span of payments.

Pandemic Time

It was March 20, 2020 declared lockdown nationwide, we didn't thought of it transportation will be paralyzed. We don't have accessible vehicle for transportation we go on commutes wherever we are going. I think that was March 21, 2020 it was the day off of my husband. It didn't sink to our senses that they're no transportation in our area.

The next day was his duty, still he manages to wait for the jeepney in the road until he went back home because he didn't saw any jeepney passing by.

Here's my crazy thoughts again, what if he can't go to the site what will be our means in paying the bills adding the refrigerator we got still in monthly payment set ups. I cried that night quietly. The next day his boss is calling to him requesting him to get the computer for work from home set up, I was enlightened on that day but the thing is how can he reached to the office because our residential place is another town means we are not included to the city proper governance.

He contacted his brother in-law that has a multi-cab and asking a favor to help him to get the computer set in order him to work from home, good thing it was a successful one. I'm so happy at that time because we can spend more time together when he was working from home and I'm not getting scared everytime night time comes because he's already at my side.

That set up is supposedly until now but, unluckily he was kicked from the team of working from home set up, because of his low performance no sales, low workforce statistics.

Go Back to Site

Only this May 2022, that his supervisor requested him to go back to site in order his performance to uplift a little so that he can go back again to work from home. The goal is that, for the meantime he was forced to work in site or office to let his scores be put in normal or higher. That was the request because many factors that agents are not working well at home, because of power interruption, intermittent internet connection that we are not in control of that. While in their office they have huge generator to sustain the power interruption.

My husband goes back to that office though he was dragging himself in going to office. It lasted for three months of managing himself. After his physical exam, my husband decided to go back at home to work, without the permission of his supervisor. But my husband computer had no access in work from home, good thing my husband has a friend in IT from that company so they chatted to fixed and having an access to work from home and good thing it works successfully.

My husband goes back to work from home set up, his supervisor just kept quiet but she knows my husband is working already at home.

Unfairly Treatment

My husband decided going back to home because there are some of his teammates are also low in scores but they are not having their duty to office so husband was not good about it.

That's why he finds his way to go back to work at home. But we noticed he doesn't have anymore work from home allowance he asked his supervisor.

His supervisor answers that my husband is no longer in the category of working from home he's already forwarded to onsite duty permanently. That was a heartbreaking news.

And again husband still working at home, he has still an access to it. Until he was told to return the computer in the office with due date. Husband is forcefully to work onsite permanently.

On The Process

My husband took long to think what to decide because he's thinking our present situations. But at the end we talked each other heart to heart telling him not to torture himself to do things it's difficult to process difficult to accept if its him can't longer stay anymore. He decided to resign.

Why his Ego being Broken

His supervisor didn't inform him to stay out from the team to work on site permanently and being requested quickly to return the computer at the office. For now we are still coping the present situations we have, hoping he can find new job again, and started over again, thank you for reading.Goof day.