There is a feeling in us that tells us which people to approach and which to distance from. Sometimes loud, sometimes quiet, and sometimes completely inaudible and incomprehensible.
It is amazing how sometimes something so powerful and sometimes so quiet happens inside us that instructs us that we will receive some blessing, lesson, lesson, experience or something else from the person we meet. Sometimes you see in front of you just some enigma after which you wonder what you can expect from this person. You are thus standing in front of another person's secret, and a whole series of contradictory feelings are swarming inside you, which only confuses you and leaves you in doubt.
When you are disappointed in a person, you wonder how you did not know it in advance, what happened to the person from whom you had such high expectations and who promised so much. But all our relationships are always mathematical equations with two unknowns because we do not always know what we can expect from ourselves, or what our attitudes towards a person will be, what feelings for a person will awaken in us and when those feelings will disappear.
As in any mathematical equation with two unknowns, when we begin to discover one side, we come to the discovery of the other side. When we illuminate our part of the path we take towards the other person, the part of the path that the other approaches us will be illuminated a little, although not to the same extent, at least to a lesser extent. If the other still remains unknown then it becomes a sign to us from which people we need to distance ourselves.
Let us ask ourselves how long we can endure in silence and solitude by listening to the voice of our heart, how much we need to become deaf to all those voices from the side imposed on us by other people. How much do we listen to what our body tells us, our intuition, everything that life reveals to us in that deepest essence? The further we move away from unimportant and unnecessary things, the more space opens up for us to understand what really matters. We will have better access to people and recognize the intentions with which they enter our lives sooner.