Admire and Respect

I admire and respect those people who;

Can boldly say I am sorry, I made a mistake. I am correcting my behavior. Not those who blame others for their mistakes because they are afraid of being caught.

Respect differences.

Don’t live in their own world of illusions but face the reality.

Think of themselves as leaders superior and others as inferior. Those who don’t claim to be better than anybody.

Are sympathetic and offer help without being asked. When seeing somebody struggling.

Seek the truth and delight in that.

Can hold themselves accountable for their actions. Who takes responsibility for their own actions.

And take further steps to fix them.

Are real to your face and keep it real behind your back.

Instead of trying to make a correction in others. Work on making themselves better.

Don’t remain silent when they should be actually stepping in, to defend somebody. When they claim to be your defenders.

Don’t just say million empty words but actually say what they mean, say who they are.

Admit that human beings aren’t perfect.

Understand somebody else’s situation without making judgments about it.

Want to see other’s happy and wish them good.

Don’t advertise somebody else’s mistakes when their mistakes are being overlooked and corrected without saying a single word.

Say words of comfort to anybody who comes to them in hopes of encouragement, comfort. Rather than making them feel guilty and bad about themselves.

Actually, care how they make others feel.

Treat everyone equally regardless of their status, whether poor, middle class, or rich.

After getting successful don’t forget where they’ve come from and been through. And once they get success don’t underestimate other people’s struggles because they once had to face those hardships themselves.

Don’t degrade others because they don’t have what they have.

Understand their life situations, circumstances are different from others.

Seek justice and peace instead of making somebody’s life miserable. Not those who brainwash others to make that situation worse.

Have a heart for others, who feel their pain and value their tears. Who doesn’t make fun of anybody’s tears and situation, especially when they come to you in hopes of comfort?

Accept the fact that there are some people out there who can’t control their emotions and it’s okay for them to cry and ease their pain if that makes them feel better. Instead of labeling them with different so-called titles because they can easily burst into tears.

Don’t think that this earth revolves around them. And people have to function according to them.

Understand that it’s not always about them. There are people out there whose lives are ten times worse than theirs.

Are strong and courageous enough to stand against wrong and don’t support wrongdoing for their personal gain.

Don’t blame the blameless and innocent ones for their wrongs. Because they want to maintain their good image and reputation of always being right.

Help other people who are in need and without expecting anything in return. Those who help and give selflessly...

Don’t misuse their power. And do justice with it.

Speak the harsh truth instead of comforting others with sweet lies, making them believe in something that is not true or right.

Don’t give false hope to others knowing it’s something not in their hands. Something they can’t control.

Treat you exactly the way you treat them.

Don’t do backbiting when they show the world how much they care for you.

Accept you for who you are. Without having this intention to change you into something they’d like to see.

Treat human beings as humans.

Count and hold your mistakes against you when theirs are being overlooked and not being taken into consideration.

Know it’s okay for others to speak up and take a stand for themselves, without making judgments about them. Knowing they’ve had enough and can’t take it anymore.

Accept the fact and reality that not everyone has the same journey as theirs, same dreams, goals, ambitions, timeline, and for sure not the same brains.

Don't play with your feelings, knowing how much you respect and admire them.

Don’t take your silence for granted and think your silence is your weakness.

Accept the reality and truth about themselves and others.

Don’t try to compete with others, thinking life is a competition and popularity contest.

Don’t force things and believe there are a time and season for everything. And you’ll get there when it’s your time.

I know it's hard to find all that in one person, or maybe we have our own reason not to have those kinds of attitudes.

Do you know someone like that?? Or do you have all those attitudes? If you will ask me if I have all that characteristic, the answer is, NO.

If I forgot to write something and you want to add more feel free to comment. I would love to read it 💕