Decision
People's age increases not in age, but in experience. Human experience is not created automatically without doing anything, every wrong decision creates human experience.
No human decision ever goes wrong, unless that decision leads to an accident. From that point of view, all human decisions are the right decisions. Even a wrong decision, which seems wrong at the moment, if it brings any benefit in the future, is the right decision. There is nothing wrong with saying right or wrong. The result of each of our actions tells us which of our decisions was right and which was wrong. Even if two people do exactly the same thing, there is no guarantee that the result will be the same.
A tall man standing on top of the same tool on which a short man at a height can easily pull the jar of pickle from the ceiling can get hit in the head, and even an accident can happen with the ceiling-fan inadvertently. My aunt is a very tall man, she has a problem getting up on the bed and pulling the mosquito net, so my uncle is a little shorter than my aunt, so it was her responsibility to hang the mosquito net every day. Kakima may have assumed that she would have an accident as soon as she went to hang the mosquito net, perhaps from the idea that the 'inhuman duty' was forced on Kaku's neck.
One morning I woke up and went to pick up the mosquito net as usual. I forgot my mind and went to the ceiling-fan. At that moment, my uncle's two fingers became completely different! Since then, Kakimai has been hanging mosquito nets every day. Of course, I don't know whether to hang them or not, maybe she has made some other arrangement, but since then, I don't know how to pull mosquito nets anymore.
One way for people to experience is to learn to make new decisions as much as possible. Making multiple decisions also increases the amount of mistakes, maybe sometimes a lot of hardships, many people become stupid, but it is also certain that the repetition of the same mistake decreases somewhere else, at least for a while the amount of mistakes goes to zero. . Again we make new decisions, the experience of learning from old mistakes may not be useful in all new decisions, but the mental power to make mistakes and to accept mistakes is multiplied. People decide not to learn or to do something wrong, but to think that it will work. Just as seemingly right decisions can lead to misery in the future, there are many decisions that we can do in a benevolent way, even if we do not care about them. Any event that changes our lives is like magic.
Again, the same work can give different results depending on the situation. The more the person suffers, the more the person learns, it is wrong. The more superstitious a person is in his decision, the more he suffers. The person who sees the same amount of success and failure in all his decisions is equal, the amount of happiness and sorrow is also equal.
Two of my childhood classmates ran away and got married in the first year of HSC without the consent of their parents, but the same work of the two has brought two completely different results. After a marriage has become more beautiful than before, the talented boy who once ran away holding his hand, the talented boy today is the father of his two children, a successful businessman. My classmate also did Honors-Masters in English, she is sitting in her father-in-law's business with her husband despite getting very good results, she has no worries about getting a job.
Meanwhile, both the children go to school. The eldest son is in class six, the youngest is in class two. Their other thought now, maybe thinking of doing something bigger, is that the father-in-law has also dragged his son-in-law into business with his son without leaving him at home. But when she ran away and married this boy, there was nothing in her house to bring the talented boy to stand in front of his parents. The boy seemed to be intoxicated, but he continued his studies by rubbing the table, and now everyone in the house, including his father-in-law and mother-in-law, ate the boy's food.
Meanwhile, another classmate's miserable condition. Today, ten years later, in the same outfit, he returned to his father with the son of the great rich man, ten years ago, in the same outfit. Even though the father-in-law has crores of rupees, the husband is an unemployed cannabis addict. But when she ran away, her husband-son's face was so innocent, so handsome and so bright that there was no way to see her and understand that in the future she would drop out of school and enter the world of drugs. Meanwhile, my classmate has become physically and mentally ill after being beaten by her husband every day, and it has not been possible to continue her studies under the pressure of her in-laws!
He is now worried about himself and his two children. The father-in-law, who once had a lot of money, is also separated from his mother-in-law by marrying another little college girl, sometimes he comes home only once a month and a half to pay for the market.
At the same time, it may not have been in the minds of either of them at the time how the two people made the same decision at the same time, but over time, the two paths completely twisted and went in the opposite direction. One just had the courage to set foot on a new path with his love partner, the other might have thought then, he got it all at once; Thought maybe, along with her husband's beauty, maybe her father-in-law's money also ruined her future, she confirmed.
The next part… we also thought at that time that Smita had married a beautiful boy, and we used to talk, her father-in-law or many houses, how many shops in a market, how many businesses are scattered here and there, but look, Banani looks like a drug addict She married the boy, how confused she is when she sees him, she knows very well what she found in that boy! There is no appearance, there is no money. Not to mention that studying on it. I heard that the father-in-law or the farm is not a fish business! Then I would look at Banani and then I would look at Smita. At the same time the two were discussed. Then I thought, Smita won, and Banani is a whole bull! But time has shown us how wrong we were.
Smita was holding the hand of a boy whom she had secured financially with, but Banani was just holding on to her love, her love was her confidence, her wealth. Today, after so many years, when I see the two of them in two completely different ways, I am amazed and think, how many people have misconceptions in the present.
It is better to say one thing here. The above incident could have happened as we thought and guessed but! In fact, we are not the ones to judge someone, someone's condition, someone's future. Time tells everything when the time comes. The best thing is to observe the incident silently. It is wise not to come to any conclusion about that. It is better not to give an opinion about the life in which we have not lived, or are not living yet. Who knows where the pain is, who knows where the happiness is, only he knows, he never knows time.
Four kinds of mind
According to Saira's commentary, the word 'intense' may be used to describe Shoaib's love. She has to deal with Shoaib's phone, messages, videos all the time, even though Saira calls them 'sweet sweet pain'! Like Shoaib, Saira now believes that hiding the eyes means hiding the mind. People of love always have to keep an eye on them. So, the two of them spend almost all day together in one way or another.
The other person also knows when the two of them go to the bathroom. The bridge on the side bed is very annoying to see these dishonesty of Sierra. In that way, how is this possible all day? Bridge Sierra's girlfriend and roommate. Two years ago, at the beginning of the university, Setu fell in love with Shubhar. But Shuvo and Setu talk about it once a day, sometimes once a week, again it has happened that two or three months have passed, but Shuvo has not made any contact. And to meet, he is far away! After seeing Saira, Setu often goes to bed with a cup of tea in her hand in the afternoon and often thinks, 'Well, why doesn't Shuvo give me such' sweet pain 'by sending messages all the time or by doubting unnecessarily? Shubho can do this, why not?
Does he do things that I don’t have the time to give? ’Of course, the bridge says all that in its mind. ‘Why don’t you give me time?’ He will never be able to say something like this to Shubh, and even if he says it, Shubh will not even say these things, he knows this very well. The bridge occasionally sighs at the sight of Saira. Those sighs have different meanings. Adiba is in the bed on the right side of the bridge. This girl stays up all day running. This class, tuition, own private, cooking.
This is how Adibar spends the whole day. He just smiles when asked if he loves her or if he has a boyfriend. No one has been able to find out the meaning of that laughter till today. Occasionally Adiba gets up at three o'clock in the morning and goes to the verandah. He walked all over the room and when he asked something else, he said, ‘I can’t sleep.’ When I woke up in the morning and saw his swollen eyes, I had to say that he had been crying all night. After a while, the Adibai went again, took a bath, made tea and brought it and called everyone to her bed.
Adiba makes great tea! If you ask him about the events of the night, nothing will be answered, so no one asks him anything, he keeps drinking tea quietly. Sometimes, Adiba says, ‘Let’s have a sparrow feast today, huh? Setu will cook, and Saira will sing. And we will all go to the roof today wearing sari. 'This playful, hilarious girl changed the atmosphere of the room in a moment. From the bed right next to them, they always notice Saira, Setu and the mysterious Adiba. He doesn't love, he just studies. He just sat at the table and thought, ‘How much the girls who came that day have changed in just two years!
The two have a relationship, maybe even Adiba, but the story of the four of them is completely different. Lubna often thinks, whose love is stronger? Who is the really good bus among them? Saira, the bridge, or Adiba? That's the way it is with all three of them. Adibao says, either with a smile or with silence. Lubna thinks, what a thing this love is! What mantra do these boys fall from the side?
Even the mantra that some of the girls laugh alone when they hear it, some envy that smile, and some can't sleep at night! What is the taste of love? Why no strong love in his life so far? What is all this fascination? Is there no such thing as love in real life, as he thinks? Or is the girl who is the first in the test again and again losing with them every day somewhere in this magic world of love?
Love and neglect
1.Negligence is not such an explanation. Just as there is no answer to why I am in love with someone, there is no very logical answer to why I am neglecting someone.
2. Neglect and neglect are both addictive. Whatever he does, he keeps doing; He who gets, keeps getting. You see, the man we want to get the most, in most cases, is the man who neglects us the most; Again, the man who gives me the most priority, I also get up in the morning and reject him first of all.
3. Most of the most successful and famous people in the world get so much neglect at any one or more stages of life, we don't even know a quarter of it. If we find out, then maybe we will see that the negligence we get is really nothing compared to the negligence they get!
4. The person you dream of, the person from whom you feel blessed even if you take a minute, can be sure, even the person who is ignored by someone. He who neglects also gets neglected; Of course not. People will be neglected in life! The fate of a person is determined by how much he has learned from the neglect.
5. Many people get lost once they get neglected, and on the other hand, the first step on the path to success for some people is to get neglect from someone. Some get lost due to negligence, some can save themselves from getting lost. . If you win against the neglect of someone you love once, then no one will be able to hurt you in life, at least in terms of feelings. There is no way to hurt the person who knows how to digest and digest negligence.
6.. If you win against the neglect of someone you love once, then no one will be able to hurt you in life, at least in terms of feelings. There is no way to hurt the person who knows how to digest and digest negligence.
On the way to dreams
I went to the grocery store at the corner of the street yesterday evening. So meet Selim there. He is well known in my university and is doing PhD in Bangla Literature. It's good to study, and it's like my little brother. He now teaches Bengali in a school, and has been preparing for the civil service exam for the past two years. Once qualified for the pre-return, it got stuck on the vibeboard, another time it got stuck in the return.
He's still trying. Anyway, at least I didn't go down without explaining myself first and foremost. He talked on the street for about 20 minutes, then I called back home and talked for a long time. He also talked a lot about the syllabus. He said so much because he was sincere enough to me. Honestly, I thought to myself. The brain says one thing, and the heart says another. Then I thought to myself, I have been dreaming of teaching at the university for the last 9 years.
Despite all the adversity, I have remained devoted to literature, knowing that it will be really difficult to get the job of my dreams. There will be extreme battles with the best at different stages, but knowing all, I could not give up Bangla literature. But why am I feeling upset today? Someone made me feel like him, and that's where I'm getting upset! My so many years of pursuit of his words will lie? Her life is hers, my life is mine. Why should the path of the two be the same? Does Pichdhala Path mean a better path than Methopath --- for anyone who wants to walk on Methopath? To me, the price of a path is exactly the same as the price I pay for the path. I always thought, I can, I can. I read literature with a lot of sincerity and love. If I got a good book, I would go hungry and sleep. I started reading story books from a very young age, my father bought me Russian fables and the tiger-fox fair of Upendrakishore Roychowdhury.
By the time I read the two books, I had almost memorized them. Starting from that. From then on, whenever Dad went out somewhere, a whole few story books would come to me with many other gifts, as if that was the normal rule. Arvaryajni, Panchatantra, Jatak's story, Uncle Chowdhury-Phantom-Aranyadev-Billu-Pinki-Smt. - I grew up dipping my nose in it. Putting my hand in my father's travel bag, I hid in a corner with the packet of my book, that was me. Everyone knew I had little interest in other gifts. Dad knew me, understood me, just laughed a little at his book-crazy boy. When I went to visit a relative's house, I would take my favorite book out of my bag and stand out from the crowd. That was my nature, everyone knew.
I remember, I told my father in one of the pujas, father, this time in puja, instead of buying me a dress, buy some books with that money. Dad said laughing, "Okay, give me your list, I'll buy them, I'll buy the dress again." When I heard this, I said quickly, well, if your budget is more after buying these books, then buy some more books with that extra money. My father was very happy to see me that day. Now I have the ability to buy unaccounted for books, but I no longer have the excitement of shopping as a child. Later, in the midst of various adversities in life, that love of literature kept me alive, gave me shelter at the wrong time, as if I could see the direction to return to the old love. So I believe that if I can make the right effort at the right time, in the right way, then I can surely fulfill my dream. If anyone can do the job in this intense competition here, it has to be me.
And I do not understand so much calculation, I do not have any special needs or ambitions except one peace. So if I could teach in an elementary school, I would be very happy. I will be among the students, I will be in literature, I will be in reading every day --- this is what I want from the heart. With all due respect, the civil service or other professions are probably not for me. My place is the only classroom, and I want to enjoy life in general with a man of mind. Although the first is possible in Kayaklesh, it is very, very difficult for the second wish to come true. You may think after reading my words, I may not be able to pass the civil service exam, it is such a difficult exam! No matter what you say, I agree. It is useless for me to waste time explaining this to you or understanding your words. I don't want to live in that life, I don't want to compete in that life, at least in my case there is no question of winning or losing in that life or competition.
I will not move a hair from the place of my love. Nothing, nothing! I will not live if I leave literature. So whatever happens, it will happen, otherwise I will be happier ... I will only be a writer, I will only be a writer. I will go to any village and make children human, just like Uttam Kumar left everything in the movie 'Agnishwar' and went to the village, I also want a result ---
where a small innocent child will put a handful of hyacinths on his chest after my death, for his beloved man. The less the desires, the less the rivalry in life. In your eyes I may be defeated, but in my eyes I want to be victorious. Move away from my dreams, live in your dreams, win - or what will I gain? That victory is a wrong life for me! Is your bright New York sun shining brighter than my little gray town sun? I agree, at least more. But what will happen to me with that much, not as much as I want? All these answers are time!
মোরগ পোলাও রেসিপি!!!বাড়িতে সহজ পদ্ধতিতে কিভাবে রান্না করা যায়?
রোগ পোলাউ / চিকেন বিরিয়ানি উপকরণ:
চিকেন প্রস্তুতির জন্য:
1. 1 মাঝারি মুরগি 4 টুকরা কাটা
2. 1 / চতুর্থ কাপ (এক চতুর্থাংশ কাপ) দই
3. আদা পেস্ট 2 tblspoon + 1 টিবিএল চামচ
4. রসুন 2 চা চামচ
5. পেঁয়াজ আটকানো 1/2 (আধ কাপ)
Special. বিশেষ গরম মশলা গুঁড়ো (রেসিপি নীচে দেওয়া হয়) 2 চামচ
7. পুরো এলাচ, দারুচিনি, বেলেফ
8. খাবারের রঙ
9. নিয়মিত দুধ 1/4 র্থ (চতুর্থাংশ) কাপ
10. তেল
১১. স্বাদ মতো নুন এবং চিনি
12. মরিচ গুঁড়ো 1 চা চামচ
13. ধনিয়া পাউডার 1 চা চামচ বিশেষ গরম মসলা: মাইক্রোওয়েভ বা আপনি ভুনা জিরা, আস্তে ধনিয়া বাটা, এলাচ, লবঙ্গ, কালো মরিচ, জায়ফল (জাইফোল), গদা (জয়েট্রি / জাভত্রী) একসাথে শুকিয়ে নিতে পারেন। তারপরে এগুলি খুব সূক্ষ্ম গুঁড়োতে গুঁড়ো করুন।
পোলাওয়ের জন্য:
1. কলোজিরা বা বাসমতি 750 গ্রাম বা 3 কাপ এর মতো অ্যারোমেটিক ভাত
2. আদা পেস্ট 2 চা চামচ
৩.আমাদের এলাচ (ইলাচি) এর দুটি শুঁটি, একটি ছোট দারুচিনি কাঠি এবং ২ তে তেজপাতার মতো গরম মশলা।
4. কাটা পেঁয়াজ 1/4 ম কাপ
৫. মুষ্টিমেজ সবুজ মরিচ (পুরো), কমপক্ষে 15/20
6. স্বাদ নুন
7. তেল + ঘি
রন্ধন প্রণালী:
1. মুরগির টুকরোগুলি ধুয়ে এনে আদা রস দিয়ে 1 টিবিএল চামচ আদা পেস্ট, লবণ এবং খাবারের রঙ (আপনি খাবারের রঙ বাদ দিতে পারেন) থেকে কমপক্ষে 1 ঘন্টার জন্য ম্যারিনেট করুন। আপনি আপনার মরোগ পোলাউতে আলু অন্তর্ভুক্ত করতে পারেন। সেক্ষেত্রে আলু কেটে সামান্য খাবারের রঙ এবং লবণ দিয়ে ঘষুন।
২. তেল গরম করে আলু ভাজুন এবং একপাশে রেখে দিন। কিছুক্ষণ মুরগির টুকরোগুলি ভাজুন। পুরো গরম মশলা যোগ করুন।
৩. দইকে বীট করুন এবং দুধ এবং চিনি ব্যতীত অন্যান্য উপাদানগুলি একত্রিত করুন।
৪. মুরগীতে যোগ করুন এবং অল্প অল্প করে জল যোগ করুন। জল যোগ করুন এবং মুরগি রান্না করুন। গ্রেভি কমাতে যখন আলু যোগ করুন। আলু রান্না শেষে অর্ধেক করা উচিত। অন্যথায় রান্নার উপরে পোলাউতে এটি যুক্ত করার পরে আলুর টুকরো টুকরো টুকরো হয়ে যায় মুরগির টুকরোগুলি একই। সুতরাং আপনার সেই পরিমাণ জল যোগ করা উচিত যাতে আপনার মুরগী শেষ হয়ে যায় তবে এখনও স্থির থাকে। গ্রেভি প্রায় শুকিয়ে গেলে এক মুখ কাপ দুধ এবং 1 চামচ চিনি যোগ করুন। গ্রেভি প্রায় শুকানো উচিত। কেবল একটু গ্রেভী থাকা উচিত।
৫. অন্য একটি পাত্রে তেল + ঘি দিন। পুরো গরম মশলা দিয়ে কিছুক্ষণ ভাজুন। কাটা পেঁয়াজ যোগ করুন। এগুলি সোনালি বাদামী হওয়া পর্যন্ত ভাজুন। আদা পেস্ট এবং লবণ যোগ করুন .. চাল যোগ করুন (ভিজিয়ে শুকিয়ে নিন) .. কিছুক্ষণ ভাজুন। . এবার এতে সামান্য বাকী গ্রেভির সাথে মুরগী, আলু যোগ করুন। গরম জল যোগ করুন। আপনি যদি 3 কাপ চাল খান তবে সাড়ে 4 কাপ জল যোগ করুন। প্রতিটি চালের জন্য 1 কাপ এবং আধা কাপ গরম জল। 7 মাঝারি আঁচে চাল রান্না করুন। জল যোগ করার পরে আপনার পোলাউকে নাড়াচাড়া করবেন না এটি আপনার পোলাউকে মজাদার এবং আঠালো করে তুলবে 15 15 মিনিটের মধ্যেই পানি প্রায় শুকিয়ে যাবে। আপনি ভাবতে পারেন, আপনার পুলাও দেখতে অর্ধেক হয়ে গেছে। যখন আমরা এটিকে "ডোম" (খুব কম আঁচে রান্না করা) এ রাখছি তখন চিন্তা করবেন না, এটি পুরোপুরি সম্পন্ন হবে।
৮. কয়েক মুঠো সবুজ মরিচ যোগ করুন। মনে রাখবেন বিরিয়ানি আলওয়েজের স্বাদ এর সাথে যোগ করা সবুজ মরিচের পরিমাণের উপর নির্ভর করে। তারা স্বাদ বাড়ায়। যেহেতু আপনি পুরো সবুজ মরিচ যুক্ত করছেন এটি আপনার পোলাউকে উত্তপ্ত করে তুলবে না আপনি এখন নিজের পোলাউকে খুব হালকা হাতে চাল না ভাঙতে পারেন যাতে এটি নীচে জ্বলে না যায়।
9. এখন পোলাউ মাঝারি কম আঁচে রান্না করুন যা আমরা এটি ডোম রাখার জন্য ডাকি। আমি 'বাইন মেরি' বা ডাবল বয়লার সিস্টেমটি সর্বদা ব্যবহার করি যা আমার পক্ষে দুর্দান্ত কাজ করে। আপনার পোলাউ জাহাজটিকে জল দিয়ে ভরাট একই আকারের পাত্রের উপরে রাখুন। আঁচে রাখুন। বাষ্পটি আপনার পোলুকে এত আর্দ্র করে তুলবে। আপনার চিকেন বিরিয়ানির উপরে কিছুটা ঘি ছড়িয়ে দিলে এর স্বাদ বাড়ে। কিছুটা কেওড়া জল ছিটিয়ে দিন। আপনার মোরগ পোলাউ / চিকেন বিরিয়ানি প্রস্তুত। কাবাব ও সালাদ দিয়ে গরম গরম পরিবেশন করুন।
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