Either say nice words or shut up

Being useful to people and yourself, how is that? What to do ? Should you worry about them? I think we should get tired, because it is as important as eating and drinking for our lives, for our loved ones and for our humanity. What I write is important for those who are aware and for those who are not aware to be aware of it again. In these times when we develop addiction to material things, we can understand how important spirituality is for us and put it into our lives.

We have to re-examine ourselves on some issues that are very important to our point of view. "An object that can be perceived by the senses, that can be divided, that has weight, that occupies space" In other words, the equivalent of a generation's emotion in humans.. So what was spirituality? Things that are intangible, internal, related to the inner world of the person " .. In other words, the emotional state that a person reflects, experiences, and perceives in his own mood.. Our mental health is actually, the most important, for us, it is very important to realize this, it depends on how we are inside. If our physical health has started to deteriorate, something spiritually has definitely started to disturb us. It takes over... Managing our brain is sometimes so difficult that when the brain starts to believe in certain things, it starts to affect our whole life... What we believe or are made to believe, we should have a time to check ourselves again, when we see some negative developments in ourselves.. The brain is such an interesting structure! may not be able to take the wrong or beautiful seeds that the people around them have placed in their minds and cause them to branch out in the brain. Sometimes we do this ourselves, because of the effects of some bad experiences we have had on us, we start to poison life for ourselves. There is nothing in this world that people cannot do or achieve when they are motivated. The effect of words on people is so important! While the sentences we form shape our lives, they can also shape the lives of the people around us. You may make a person happy with matter, but you can illuminate him with spirituality, light his way, and perhaps you may have done the greatest favor to connect that person to life. What does that mean? If you say, I can give an example.. "Don't give a person a fish, you taught him how to fish" no one is superior to anyone else, everyone has skills and how they use these skills and how they apply them to life is in question.

One of the most important issues to be considered while raising children is the words and phrases we use in our children, the seeds we plant in those children's brains and become a diagnosis for their adult identities in the future. Your misdiagnoses make those children mislead themselves. It erupts with the definition of the wrong one.. Do not inflate their egos while raising your children. If you do not want those children to turn into selfish individuals who have no respect for people in the future, who do not care about anyone but themselves. Do not use bad words against them when raising your children, if you want them to be faint, cowardly and unsuccessful people in the future. If you don't want to... It is necessary to proceed on a balance in education.. It is important to explain the mistakes to your child in a nice language so that the child will perceive that what he/she has done is wrong. It is important for his ego not to be overloaded. These issues, which are also valid for us adults, are also very important for the preservation and development of our spirituality. It doesn't help to understand long words.. This does not go beyond breaking hearts, hurting and hurting each other.. That's why the style is very important, people should understand the need to use the words in the right tone and with the right expressions..

If you insist that everyone behave as I want, everyone understand me and do what I say, this is a wrong way of thinking. This attitude pushes us away from people, people do not want to continue their dialogue with you.. If you empathize, it will be easier for you to understand. You don't have the right or luxury to do things that won't go away, and you don't have the right or luxury to speak to anyone.. Respect should be mutual, even if you are older. Of course, they will greet them with respect. Approach people with nice words, big or small, it doesn't matter.. You want to make a heart, not to break your heart.. Not disturbing a person's psychology is the best favor you can do for that person.. People whose mental health has deteriorated begin to struggle with diseases.. Or they start to harm the right and the left with their deteriorated psychology.

They work.. In other words, the words you say and say affect each other's lives, whether we are aware of it or not.. Our culture has given us such good examples that our ancestors did not use these words for nothing, For example, eat less, sleep less, talk less! Even if it hurts, don't hurt it! He has a bad word! Say a nice word or shut up! Silence is good manners.. If speech is silver, silence is gold.. There are many examples like these when we examine them, and the point they all refer to is the same. Style.. Good morals, respect for people and even all living things.. Love and respect for the Creator. It is a small but very big detail that he has to do in order to become a perfect human being. Fasting that is obligatory for us in Islam is not just starvation. For this reason, even we will be amazed at the beauty that we will see when we purify and clean our words when we realize the necessity of fasting in our language. its name will be peace.. When we are at peace, our mental and physical health will be balanced.. Finally, in the words of a thinker, I want to complete my article with an example, beautiful people.." Be like the sun in love, be like a river in friendship and brotherhood, be like night in covering mistakes, be like earth in humility, be like the dead in anger, whatever you are, either appear as you are or be what you seem

Love and respect..