Next year September 2013 I will be thirty and now I can really see and feel what it feels like to grow old. They say that 30 years old is still young but maybe if you were born in the 1970's it was yes because at that time it was at the age of 30 that you were still sprouting but now people are still matured by maturing if before eh The couple is still young at the age of 30 now eh that's just the right age or for others it's too late because people now at the age of seventeen are just pregnant or already pregnant.
HOW DOES THE OLD MAN FEEL?
What an older person like me feels is not fear but worry, worrying because maybe later he will find out that there is or he did not do much when he still had time. For me, it is not fair to compare what happened to the people born in 1960 to 1970 or even to those born in the 1980's to 2000 because the world treats us differently from those people. Suppose you can not compare the achievement of cellular phones with smartphones especially with landline phones because they have different uses and worlds they lived in when they were first created.
As you get older, the idea of death stirs your mind, do you realize that "yes, I will also die sooner or later" so from there the "worries" will come again, the questions that became meaningful is my life? ” others say it is difficult to answer the question of whether a person's life has really been meaningful, it can be said if it is difficult if you do not have a simple basis, often used as a basis by people are second hand standards the type that should be before you die is be rich, be famous like this or that but if you ask yourself "Who said that should be?" and how can you be sure that this should happen I am sure even you are not sure who and if you are sure that it should be like this. But how can your life be truly meaningful? For me it is simple, that is if you can answer the whole question YES these two questions
1) Do you find joy in your life?
2) Do you bring joy to others?
This question is from the movie Bucket List and this is the one I chose to tell if one is the way for you to easily check where you are.
Now try to answer the question HOW TO REMEMBER GOOD?
First of all, let us accept that it may be true that we only have a little time left in this world but it is also possible to go further, the important thing is whether it is long or short we can enjoy whatever it is.
BE CLEAR ON YOUR BASIS
As I said at the beginning of this article let us clarify to ourselves what we have in mind, are you saddened by old age because you are comparing yourself to children who have already acquired material things that if where did you get it at the age of being a little older than him? for example car or own house and land, it is shocking that there are people like this but not purke like that you should minimize yourself because there are many possible reasons why it happens, yes it can be because you are lazy or you are salted but it is also possible that other people supported him or he may have had it before but he did not have it when you were there. There is nothing wrong with being young or old enough to get something but if you base it on material things to judge life is for me too shallow.
NO BAD PARTICIPANTS
One of the misleading thoughts of the elderly is that they are separating their lives from the world, because car racing, boxing and partying are only for children… but who said that? no, if you meet people who do not discriminate, just understand them because no matter what age or graduation he is, it is sad to say that he is still a beginner in life.
NO REPENTANCE FOR EVERYONE HAPPY
Of the older people I met, almost all of them seemed to have opportunities that were missed or wasted but some of them felt very bad about that incident and there were also others who did not affect it. To the old people I met, I like the old people who grow old and grow old without being blamed in life because I feel that their happiness is real, I was told if the flow of happiness is really flawless to them, there are no bumps, the type you just know there is he is bitterly hidden because of past experience, I understand that we really have bitter past that the wound is incurable, I just say what I see that happy old people are people who have no regrets not because of they have not wasted or wasted opportunity but because they accept their shortcomings or shortcomings of others and they all forgive him especially himself.
WE CANNOT UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING BUT WE CAN ACCEPT IT
When I was young I told myself when I grew up I’ll figure-out life! but now I can say that I guess no one can do that… Like death, you can put him off but you can't stop him. Life you can enjoy but you will not be locked up. There are things in life that we can understand, there are other things we can understand little by little but there are things that we may never be able to understand. What if we do not understand? there is nothing wrong with just accepting it. After all, we lived here just like that, we have no signed contract and as long as we really emerge here in the world, in fact living is a free opportunity, when you are released do you still need to dig into the reason why you will be released? Maybe it's enough for you to know that he has nothing to ask for in return and he just wants you to be happy…
MABUHAY NG MAY SAYSAY
From what I read, one of the reasons for suicide is because they think their lives have nothing to say. Sometimes we think our importance is attached to an object, property, title, physical body or a relationship. But what people say is what their purpose / intention is and what they do in this world. It is strong to believe that when you are old you have limited abilities, but have we ever asked why? Aren't children who seem to be limited able to do? because it is not in the right mind yet? but honestly keh young or old for me that's just the same, when you want to try an activity that is interesting to you eh you should do it. It is nice to get tired when you believe that what you are working for makes sense especially if this makes sense.
So far this is the information gathered that I think will help guide how to grow well and if there are any additions or changes you hope I will publish right here in this article….
