Many are like me
now with child and
enter the title FATHER
but the experience
is still batchelor.
This coming September
will be seven years
that is my son and so on
also our anniversary
as a couple of
my landlord.
But if you ask
how are you life with
husband is the answer
I do not have you
I still have a solid idea.
You may be surprised
how did that happen eh
you have been seven years
married and seven years
your child too?
If you are an OFW
that like me is likely
you will understand love
if say. within
a year is almost a
you have only been together for months.
So in seven years
equivalent was not yet a
years if we count.
I support
my child and warm can
the most expensive will be given
I warm him so much
my accumulated and source
of livelihood, not because
I want to be loved but
maybe this way
I can only recover a little
as a Father.
It's really hard to decide
if you choose that
you are together
your family but exactly
just your expense
compared to that which is quite plentiful
you to spend but separate
naman.
It is difficult to decide
when you choose to be together
you may be the one to taste
you in those sweet moments
while you are on vacation
will be replaced by bitter
moan and you will see those
problem you have seen before
but you just didn't notice.
I just pay attention to life
deeper imprint the
unpleasant memories
compared to the beautiful ones.
To fathers like me
who wants to be replaced
of ugly memories
especially in this regard
to your spouse and child?
Of course not!
But one of the concerns
of such as if
Dad Title but Batchelor
the lifestyle is the
constantly running
clock…
Currently batchelor
lifestyle me and my
body can still be called
batchelor, still strong, with
a little chic and vibrant
rest…
But we already know
the wealth of the body is equal
of monetary value, where
eventually decreases the
its price or value, the body
we are now full of strength
we are not aware
which will eventually be that page
of the page and I like
I wish it would happen
the day it will be completely gone
would have been more
time I spend with
they… My family.
It is difficult to be a Dad
and establish a Family
I feel that, in those
seven months together
I am the wife and my child
is as if imagining
I know what kind of life
the possible to have
I eventually when included
I love them. Sometimes
I ask why I do
has entered such
kind of life? So delicious
when you were alone, nothing
care but yourself
but if you weigh
totally ultimately believe
whether you are or not is still different
life has a family.
Like I said nothing
I can still say solid
idea what life really is
of a Dad and Husband but
all I can say is solid
that my solid idea is
yung buhay binatan.
The life of a young man
you will want a lot
do and experience. When
these tasks were performed
you have and experienced that is
there you can ask your
yourself what's next?
You can repeat those
made or suffered before but
it will be boring eventually
whatever the change
do something else
feel when reached
you have a trip already
with your own family.
The feeling is for
when you have a new car
and this is your first time traveling
In a far away place. GAnun yun!
seems to have a sense of achievement.
Others say many envy
in my life now. Many
Dad allegedly did not want to live
bachelor. Want to be alone or solo
to have quality time
myself, I do not know
what can I answer them
because I feel I should
if you understand what
looks nung point of view
they to be close the
will be used as a basis for giving
of opinion to Dads who want
solo.
To Dads like me
maybe just two things
what to do now
but to hope and wait…