You may be much more emotional. So emotional that you cry even over small things. Maybe that's why so many people laugh at you? What happened? Emotional is not a bad thing, not even a crime. So why do you have to change it? ... Why change yourself for someone else? Live the way you want to live, live the way you want to live. Those who want the best for you or your loved ones will accept you that way. As you are If they can't accept you that way, leave them alone. Because they want you to live like them. Why run your life depending on the likes and dislikes, desires and reluctances of others? Manage your life in your way. Live your life the way you think is easy.
You introvert? Maybe don't talk to people too much. That is why many people will not like you. So what? Please stay like that. Most of the people dislike you? You were not born to all the people of this world or to win the hearts of all. A few people around you are enough for you to survive. You don't need the support of 100 people to survive. Few people will love you. Some people in this society always try to catch you wrong. The way you walk, the way you talk. They will catch your mistake. Their problem is if you are an introvert, their problem is if you are an extrovert. Just avoid these people. They will not be good for you, but they can be bad for you.
Only human judgment continues around this society. They will sit down to judge whatever you do. Even if you are emotional, it is your fault. It's a fault if you talk less, it's a problem if you talk more. Even if you use an expensive phone, some people will talk to you more. Some people will laugh when you use a cheap phone. In the case of girls, many people will talk to them more if they wear makeup, and some people will have fun even if they don't wear makeup. You cannot win the hearts of all the people in society. Because it is not possible to do that. And the bigger thing is that you were not born into this world to make everyone happy or to win everyone's heart. If there are 100 people in society, their thoughts will be 100 different. So think only of yourself by eliminating the thoughts of everyone in society. Think about your loved ones. Because you don't need the support of 100 people in society, you just have to love your people.
If we notice, we will see that our words and actions are constantly changing depending on the will and reluctance of others. Thousands of thoughts of what people will think, what people will say are swirling in our heads every day and our efforts are running away from it. As a result, we are unknowingly becoming puppets of other people. I feel inferior in the words of others, I suffer from an inferiority complex, I am trying to lead my life like them. But is it right at all? If you want to live your life with the thoughts of others, what will happen to your thoughts? What will happen to your hopes, aspirations, dreams, goals?
Your movements, your speech, your results, your career ... whatever. You try to be like the people in the society (although it is not possible to be like everyone else). Even then you will always hear the bitter words of some people. But at the end of the day, your life is yours. You are solely responsible for your life. How you go, where you go, where you study, where you work, what you do in your career ... all these decisions are your own. So think and decide everything. Give priority to your mind, your thoughts. You will see that you will get peace of mind and you will be able to do it with your mind.
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