You know about the famous saying that goes; “Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.” And I couldn’t agree more how true that is. The way you see things depends on how you look at them, not how what other people think they were.
In this generation that we’re living in, the so called “beauty standard” usually based on something that we’ve seen on television, or throughout the internet. But guess what, it’s not what you think it is.
Title: The Mirror Lies About
The Beauty
Published Date: August 20, 2022
Author: alykavinsky What do you see everytime you look in the mirror?
Do you see yourself as someone that’s beautiful? Or someone that’s the total opposite of it?
Whatever your answer may be, the way you see yourself depends on what’s something you wanna feel. You know most times, our mind is our number one enemy, specially when we are not on our usual mental state. Anxiety, depression, you name it. Those factors has a greater effect on how the way we think, of course, and how the way we appreciate everything that surrounds us including our own existence. Mind can be so tricky. It can show us something that doesn’t even exist, and it can tell us things that’s far from the reality.
You know, there’s a well known trick that is called “The Law of Attraction”. It’s like manifestation of things you wanted to happen to you and your life, or attracting something that you want to experience in the future or in the current situation.
For example; attracting positive energy to shine through you. It’s like looking at the mirror and believing that you are indeed beautiful, and that’s something that will reflect in reality. The power of mindset. Telling yourself every single day that you are enough, that you are truly beautiful inside and out will something that will reflect on your appearance. It has been proven many times, that the Law of Attraction is indeed effective in so many ways.
Come to think of it, whenever you’re freaking out and getting stressed out on your pimple breakout for example, it became worse the next day. Because you keeps on thinking about it. Law of Attraction remember? Our mind is powerful enough to attract the things we’re really afraid to happen. Whenever we constantly think that we might fail at doing something, then there is a high possibility that that will gonna happen in the future. Manifestations is the result of what we think, it’s not something that just pops up out of the blue.
We are what we think we are. The society’s so called “beauty standard” doesn’t really matter at all, because you know what matters? It’s how the way we look at our ourselves, and how the way we see it. The scars on your body, it’s like an art you know. It’s a proof of all the battles you have survived and all the pain you have endured. Your acne? Your pimples? Your freakles? Your moles? Your birthmarks? That’s just shows how our body was humbly made. Because one can’t be too perfect enough to exist, so everyone can fairly appreciate oneself, and accept the kind of beauty that’s living inside and out of them.
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So the next time you look in the mirror, chin up, put a smile on your face, and tell yourself how beautiful you truly are. Do that every single time you see your reflection. Your eyes, your nose, your lips, your teeth, your hair, your body, and everything about you are just rightfully made, you just have to really appreciate all of it.
Stop aiming for a perfection. That’s not even a thing when it comes to appearance. Be confident enough. Confidence is what breeds beauty. Because nothing can make you more beautiful than believing that you really are.
Kick some ass, you gorgeous! *wink
Well said. Society's beauty standard is really awful and should not be tolerated..