You do NOT need to meet society's standards

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“You have to live as you think, otherwise you will end up thinking about how you have lived”

We are all creative by nature which automatically makes us powerful, just as the world has evolved the human body little by little through this time so well, if we compare the abilities that we possess today to those that the first humans possessed on earth. On the face of the earth the differences would even be implicit, nothing should be delimited because at first glance we would be witnesses of the great advance not only in the physical body but also in mental power, now we are even more capable of breaking schemes, of creating bonds, of establish communication, to have fun and even to store as much information as a computer, although unfortunately the only limitations we impose on ourselves, many according to society dictated especially by what they will say, many of these take us away from a bright future , given that when we want to create a precedent, when we want and want to mark a before and after, for this we need we need to act even doing things that others would not dare to do that is the secret of people who in one way or another have achieved their success formula.

We are not responsible for what happens to us in half the time, but we are completely responsible for how we act in these situations, of course, although we can be indirectly a little responsible for the small portion of time that remains given that we are the owners of our actions and words, many times we do it without analyzing and being retrospective towards the consequences that these events can have in our lives, for this reason we must be more aware of our beliefs, role models and paradigms, although it is difficult to assimilate these are the ones that determine and we are even limited by the acts that we do or do not do, they are beliefs and evolutionary paradigms, that is, they transform at every step we take, it is impossible to take for granted that we are still the same as a year or even a month ago, the change it is one of the only constants of the human being, change is always on the order of the day, we can not only talk about mental change but also physical as time passes we get a little older, we are like a good wine the older the better, but in reality we are older and wiser.

There are many people who, when they have reached a mature age, say and they all agree that they regret what they did not do more than what they did, the doubts and he should not be our life partner, on the contrary, he should accompany us always the satisfaction of having done everything we wanted at some point, although many times it did not go according to plan, leaves us with a wonderful experience and a great learning of life, one of the main factors that limit us from saying YES to life experiences is It is mainly due to what they will say, what others think and think or because of the restrictions that society itself has imposed, another equally terrifying perspective of not doing things for fear of other people's comments is also the one that pushes us to do things that we do not want and want to please others, naturally creating in us frustration and a pothole that will not heal until we start to act and set limits, in addition more clearly to go in search of what truly generates satisfaction.

It should be a priority that they teach us from a young age that we should do what we are passionate about in life, what does not require obligations, what injects us with life, many times a very common mistake in parents is to subject their children to their ideals, that is, , urging them to do what they want and not what the person really wants for his life, is extremely frustrating because a father should be unconditional support, be with his children even regardless of the decisions he makes, we all in one way or another have chosen and sealed our destiny, what paths to take and where to go, the same thing happened with our parents the path they chose was their decision, therefore people should grant that same freedom so that others can go after what generates happiness and satisfaction, we should only be supportive, without judging and much less pointing, being there for the people we love no matter what they are doing with their lives as long as what they do and dedicate their existence generates happiness to the people who empathize with them will generate satisfaction.

"Be the change you want to see in the world"

Do not sacrifice your happiness to try to please others, your priority should be you, many will believe that it is a self-centered thought but it really is self-love, to bring the best of ourselves to the world it is essential to be well with us in all areas of our life. life, clearly by being well with ourselves we can give others the best of us, let's never forget it, happy day, thanks for reading!

Doubts are given away in this space!

 “You have to live as you think, otherwise you will end up thinking about how you have lived”

We are all creative by nature which automatically makes us powerful, just as the world has evolved the human body little by little through this time so well, if we compare the abilities that we possess today to those that the first humans possessed on earth. On the face of the earth the differences would even be implicit, nothing should be delimited because at first glance we would be witnesses of the great advance not only in the physical body but also in mental power, now we are even more capable of breaking schemes, of creating bonds, of establish communication, to have fun and even to store as much information as a computer, although unfortunately the only limitations we impose on ourselves, many according to society dictated especially by what they will say, many of these take us away from a bright future , given that when we want to create a precedent, when we want and want to mark a before and after, for this we need we need to act even doing things that others would not dare to do that is the secret of people who in one way or another have achieved their success formula.

We are not responsible for what happens to us in half the time, but we are completely responsible for how we act in these situations, of course, although we can be indirectly a little responsible for the small portion of time that remains given that we are the owners of our actions and words, many times we do it without analyzing and being retrospective towards the consequences that these events can have in our lives, for this reason we must be more aware of our beliefs, role models and paradigms, although it is difficult to assimilate these are the ones that determine and we are even limited by the acts that we do or do not do, they are beliefs and evolutionary paradigms, that is, they transform at every step we take, it is impossible to take for granted that we are still the same as a year or even a month ago, the change it is one of the only constants of the human being, change is always on the order of the day, we can not only talk about mental change but also physical as time passes we get a little older, we are like a good wine the older the better, but in reality we are older and wiser.

There are many people who, when they have reached a mature age, say and they all agree that they regret what they did not do more than what they did, the doubts and he should not be our life partner, on the contrary, he should accompany us always the satisfaction of having done everything we wanted at some point, although many times it did not go according to plan, leaves us with a wonderful experience and a great learning of life, one of the main factors that limit us from saying YES to life experiences is It is mainly due to what they will say, what others think and think or because of the restrictions that society itself has imposed, another equally terrifying perspective of not doing things for fear of other people's comments is also the one that pushes us to do things that we do not want and want to please others, naturally creating in us frustration and a pothole that will not heal until we start to act and set limits, in addition more clearly to go in search of what truly generates satisfaction.

It should be a priority that they teach us from a young age that we should do what we are passionate about in life, what does not require obligations, what injects us with life, many times a very common mistake in parents is to subject their children to their ideals, that is, , urging them to do what they want and not what the person really wants for his life, is extremely frustrating because a father should be unconditional support, be with his children even regardless of the decisions he makes, we all in one way or another have chosen and sealed our destiny, what paths to take and where to go, the same thing happened with our parents the path they chose was their decision, therefore people should grant that same freedom so that others can go after what generates happiness and satisfaction, we should only be supportive, without judging and much less pointing, being there for the people we love no matter what they are doing with their lives as long as what they do and dedicate their existence generates happiness to the people who empathize with them will generate satisfaction.

"Be the change you want to see in the world"

Do not sacrifice your happiness to try to please others, your priority should be you, many will believe that it is a self-centered thought but it really is self-love, to bring the best of ourselves to the world it is essential to be well with us in all areas of our life. life, clearly by being well with ourselves we can give others the best of us, let's never forget it, happy day, thanks for reading!

Doubts are given away in this space!

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Life is all about living it in your own way if there are limits then it means that they are to break

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