We must learn that there are situations beyond our reach and control
"Of all the misfortunes that afflict humanity, the bitterest is that we have to be aware of much and control of nothing"
Although in our youth, childhood, infancy or development through the upbringing with which we have all been taught, they assure us in some way that we always have control, that everything will always turn out as we wish, although it is a method full of positivism limit that on certain occasions in life it does not turn out as we planned or idealized, although it is true that we have certain victories but there are also battles in which we lose, battles that make us see another reality or perspective of life that is obviously that control is often an illusion, control or taking it is completely subjective and everything depends on the circumstances in which it is developed but in general parameters control is an analysis through an examination of observation and monitoring that we promote around something or someone .
Like many aspects of life, it is a phase that has positive and negative characteristics, but it is very educational, everyone agrees, that sometimes we must completely let go of control, control takes us away from life, it takes us away from experiencing things for over-analyzing them, keeps us away from rewarding opportunities that simply disappear because time is money, although it is true that we must take some time, it cannot be eternal, we must enter a meeting as if it were a company where we exhibit in a balances the good, the bad and the different perspectives because the human being, not only speaks from reason, the human being speaks from the heart, speaks from empathy, thus promoting a result together with a criterion that leads us to take the best decision, the decision that will drive us all once or many times since it is something that often happens to many is that once the crisis for thinking that we do not have control leaves us Undoubtedly we will begin to see the entire panorama, a panorama where the rain has finally calmed down where we can witness the completely clear event that will undoubtedly allow us to visualize much better and more realistic solutions and perspectives than the fatalistic ones that invaded us at first.
Unlearning plays a very important point in these aspects, unlearning although for many it is a tool that they do not dare to integrate, it is a tool that is a priority because we must love everything in our lives but it also makes us understand and accept that there is things that have a time of arrival and a time of departure that we must learn to flow with that time even if it is a total unknown, they are surprising because naturally it is something that we did not expect but nevertheless they are transcendental experiences that we must go through, to learn, life is very silent, it brings us a diversity of moments that we cannot imagine, but that after a while we will be grateful because, although hard, they were the ones that strengthened our strength and courage, maximizing us, making us people capable of coping even with the worst currents, the most important of all this is that we truly accept what life is bringing us, if we do not accept it in some way we similar situations will rain down on us that will not stop coming to us until we learn, conclude the lesson and settle to make way for other better aspects that are waiting to come to us.
Letting go of control and accepting the strange designs that life or destiny have prepared for us are not easy aspects, they are very hard and assiduous, because they not only affect our mind but also our body, thanks to the fact that they are moments where Continuous tension and stress totally take over our physique, simultaneously and silently causing counterproductive aspects that become visible through diseases that absorb us in those moments where, unfortunately, everything accumulates and takes us a little away from solutions, it is also a way that life has to tell us that we should not only focus on the exterior or better expressed we must work within ourselves in the same way that we do with the exterior, hold on to you, to your inner spiritual connection, if you do not have it, encourage it, nothing like falling for it what you are, your goals and the great and revitalizing strength you have to prove to anyone that you can achieve everything, having a healthy relationship with control.
Particularly today from the morning I decided to do this article, a complete coincidence, given that I had to deal with a supremely emotional aspect, a farewell, which was inevitably out of our control, there are aspects like these that happen because it is the natural course of life, but that does not mean that they are painful, that they leave feelings of anxiety with gaps that we thought at first would not close, but time is the best healer, teacher and healer, time can do everything, what today it hurts tomorrow will be history, these are moments where questions come into our lives, because we ask ourselves why, because life shakes us by phases in these ways, but in the end it will always be the same conclusion to LEARN, by the way if you are going through similar circumstances, I can only tell you that the pain is solved, that time puts everyone in their place, trust, let go and let yourself go.
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