How to you know if she tell you the truth if you didn't trust her words?
Trust
Trust is the number one foundation in all kind of relationship. Relationships needs trust what happened in a relationship without trust? You don't have a peace of mind, full of doubt. If you love a person you have to trust him or her. What do you feel if your friend or girlfriend or boyfriend didn't trust you?
What if he or she always wanted to check your phone? Just to make sure that you don't have any person entertain with?
What would you do if he or she ask your email, Facebook, Instagram, messenger?
What would you do if he always ask all of that? Will you give it or not?
Well for me if he or she ask my password I have to think about it. Yes I love that person but wait always remember you also need a privacy. Even he or she give the password of them account can't be changed the fact that person trusted you. If he or she trusted you and love you they will never ever ask your password.
Maybe others give them password to prove that they never cheat to others, but think about it. What if someone messaged you? A friend or a family member that they didn't know?
What do you think what happened if someone messaged you and they feel jealous and block them? If they really love each other they will be trust each other and give them a privacy. If you don't want to hurt your self and your love one don't ask there passwords. If you don't want to hurt you and your love don't open there personal messages. If they love you even someone messaged them they ignore them. Even someone try to seduce them they never ever go to them. And if you really love each other no need to check time to time the account of each other to make sure that they never cheated on you.
They tell you if someone messaged to them. and believe me it's much better if you let them do what ever they wanted and trust them. If you are always checking and he or she also to you. I don't think if both of you will be together for a long time.
Even a bird if you take in a cage they find ways to have a freedom. When you accidentally open the cage what bird will be do? They try to scape and they fly away from so much far from you and never be come back.
Like in our relationship to one another if someone to much strict to us, we feels like you can't breathe. We feels that we don't have any freedom. Everyone deserves it and without trust you didn't have a freedom, we didn't feel the true meaning of love. We never try to say our own opinion, we afraid to tell them what on our mind. Sometimes we just used to it becauseof love on that person,
But what about if you give all? You give even your privacy and still not enough? Both of you are breaking up? Both of you are give up so easily? Then what happened next?
Or what happened if you want your freedom and he or she didn't want to break up with you? . And sadly he/she changed your password and you didn't have any access to open it again?
And worst he/she try to blocked mail you he/she know everything about you.
What would you do in that scenario?
What would you do if he post your secret? if both of you have it. What happened to you then?
Don't wait that time will comes to you.dont ruin your life in the person didn't trust you. To the person that you almost give everything but still not enough.
Don't love the person if he/she will never give you an important. Love without trust it's can't be called a love. If you love someone trust them. Love them with all your heart.
If you came in the relationship that they cheated on you and go in another relationship again and you afraid to cheat on you again, and asking her account. ooww… Wait.. wait.. wait… take a deep breath it not fair to that person. It's so unfair… it not her… It's not your ex… Hello wake up!... not all was like your ex!...
If you think all is like your ex then don't enter in a new relationship.
If your not ready to give her your trust don't try to courting her..
Don't let he/she fall in you.
And after she fall you asking her privacy her freedom? Don't be so selfish.
Don't ever never enter in another relationship if you didn't finally move on.
Don't try to have a new relationship if your not ready to trust someone to love someone, love is not a game that make a trial and just left if you failed or you think that not enough to. It's not a free trial… .
Love is not a test that if he or she didn't do what you want, you will think that he or she doesn't love you or not deserve to be with you . "Love your self first before love someone else." It's so unfair to enter in another relationship if you want to be that person be like your ex. Don't find someone who look like your ex.or don't find someone that you think that follow what you want. Everyone has there on style, have there on personality. Don't ask that person to change for you to meet your standard. If they want to change they change because they want to, not because you want to.
So nice to have a person that not easy to give up.
The person that will stay despite of the situation they have true.
Someone who will say "it just a problem." "we can do this" "we can survive in this".
Because to be honest all of people they can be pleased you. They can be make you smile, make you laugh. But not of all of then can be stay with you when the situation getting worse.
So if you have someone that can be with you thru worst keep them. Because your so lucky to have them.