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how lovely and amazing it is to have someone who will love the mess in your mind. the transparent yet deep trenches in your soul. the grumpy face in the morning. and how fascinating and lovely it is to have someone who will appreciate the tiny little steps you took and the steady slow progress you did, because he knows it counts.
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Lesson learned. “If all the world hated you, and believed you wicked, while your own conscience approved you, and absolved you from guilt, you would not be without friends.” When we unconsciously allow our suppressed anger-pain to grow in us just like weeds grow and overtake a garden, it is always-unresolved issues from our childhood past that continue to rule, govern, and bring chaos in our adult life. Incest family cults of child rape, sexual predators, paedophiles and child rapists like vultures are found everywhere, they are like the wicked described in this scripture: “The wicked build houses like a spider’s web or like the hut of a slave guarding the fields.”
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10 Pieces of advice to every woman. 1. When respect is no longer there, find your way out. Although it is hard to start over, do not wait until you lose yourself in the process. 2. Do not chase love. Chase your dreams instead. 3. No one has the right to make you feel worthless. You are more than enough. 4. If someone really loves you, he will pursue you and will make real efforts. 5. Please know that you are beautiful together with your scars and imperfections. 6. You do not need to compare yourself to anyone. You have a different journey to take. 7. Your only competition is yourself. Hone your skills and be a better version of you. 8. If it fails, it is not love in the first place. True love bends but it never breaks. 9. Working hard is good but you have to prioritize your health. Find time to be with your family. They are the ones who will be there for you in your darkest days. 10. Prioritize yourself. Love yourself. It has long been overdue .
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You and only you have control over what you allow and put up with in your life! Take back your life and value what you give your time and energy too. Word to the wise everything don’t deserve your response!!💜
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Everybody wants peace until they realize peace means changing your tone when speaking with someone who has irritated you, no longer making everything an argument, listening before responding, setting boundaries & understanding boundaries others have set, and no longer allowing just anyone to have access to you. Some of you don’t want real peace because to require peace is to give it to others. How do you expect peace when you’re responding in toxic ways?
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I don't know where you are going, but I know you are going somewhere, I don't know when you will get there, but I know you will get there someday, I don't know what it will take you, but I know you can give it all it takes, I may not know you, but I know you will achieve your dreams. Keep going, one step at a time, life is a journey, and it's worth traveling. No matter what comes your way, there is always a brighter day. Find joy in this journey, it's the journey of life.
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"Be vibrant. You will make your life beautiful and their life colourful." Being vibrant means, you are full of life and energy. When you lead your life with zest and vigour, not only do you live your life to its full potential, but you also inspire others to do so. There are times when we feel our life has become very dull and uninteresting. Then we come across someone who seems radiant and cheerful, and even we start to feel good about ourselves. Their positivity makes us look beyond our disappointments, and we look forward to living every moment of life. Live your life with enthusiasm and spirit. Take each day as it comes. Problems will always be there; when you feel optimistic and vibrant, you will easily overcome every problem.
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Just be honest with her. The worst thing you can do is lie to her. Even if it'll hurt her, tell the truth about everything. There's no such thing as being 'too honest', because the truth might hurt, but a lie would hurt way more. I know you might feel the need to lie so she won't get hurt, but don't. All she can really ask from you is to be straight up and real with her. If you're talking to another girl, okay, she'll get a little jealous, but she'll get over it. If you're talking to your ex, okay, she'll be a little uncomfortable with it, but she'll brush it off. If you're chillin' with other girls, okay, she'll be a little upset, but she won't be mad at you forever. If you caught feelings for another girl, okay, she'll cry for a little, but she'll learn to accept it. At least she'll respect you for being man enough to tell her, but if you're gonna lie about any of these things, eventually, she'll find out, and there goes her respect, her trust, maybe even her love will fade out.
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Choose people who are good for your mental health. Choose people who don't judge you based on your worst days. Choose people who continuously push you to grow. Choose people who respect your boundaries. Choose people who fit not just in your present, but in your future. Be with the right circle of friends!
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When you choose a partner, it’s important when it comes to character. Choose someone who’s kind to you and your surrounded people. Someone who treats you like a lottery and would do anything to keep you from getting hurt. Get yourself someone who knows you’re rare, someone who texts you at the end of the day and tell you “I miss you so much today”. Never choose someone who tells you they love you, but their actions aren’t matching with their words.
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No matter how many or few the years ahead still are for you, from my heart ... May they bring you that which you dreamed of, but wouldn't dream of asking And may it remove from you all that is unbearably hard, which you never imagined bearing May it bring you all you desire, but were willing to stay without, so others may have it. And may it bring joy you never even dreamed could be your's. May it bring into fulfillment every godly wish and hope and every prayer answered. May you always find a way to understand the answers and ways of fulfillment, so your peace is complete No matter how many or few the years ahead still are for you. This is my wish and my prayer for you.
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Be with someone you can call "home". Your partner should be your safe zone. Your happy place. Your calm in a storm. Someone you can count on. Life could be tough and chaotic sometimes. It's best to have someone who will always be there for you. Someone who will motivate you and guide you. Someone who will champion your growth. Someone who cares about your peace of mind. Someone you can call "home".
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This is how it really feels when you have to cut someone off. It's not easy. It hurts. You were once so attached to that person with every bit of yourself (although it might not be the same for them) but you have to do it to become calmer and at peace again.. Yes, it's gonna be hard to heal but you WILL. And even though they might not notice how immersed you are in them for the time being, they'll notice when your warmth is gone. You might blame yourself for allowing yourself to become so vulnerable with the wrong people, but it just proves you have a big heart and a lot to offer. So next time you have a hard time taking the decision to cut ties with someone, remember you're only making room for others that will not take your big heart for granted. It's not your loss, it's theirs.
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Lesson learned. “My hope for the future is that we learn wisdom again.” The way we live our life has to be a reflecting of our own moral integrity, self-dignity, and self-respect those attributes shape our character value that help us rebuild new and strong foundation with healthy boundaries in our adult life where we once had none. Plato was born around 428 B.C., during the final years of the Golden Age of Pericles' Athens, and his words speak a truth we all know well today.
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You forget.. people whom you thought you would never forget and life goes on. You wake up one day and all the love you had for them is gone. Still life goes on. Your day passes by and you hardly think of them when at some point they never escaped your mind and life goes on As you grow older you realize that it’s is just the way of life. Meeting people , loving people, losing people. As long as you live. It will keep happening over and over again . It always be like this. But life will always go on.
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Please don't lean on me too often – I'm also working on myself. I still have days when it's a struggle to keep a straight face, nights when everything I tried so hard to pull together just falls apart. It's still a mess out there and I want to make it through. A cloud is hanging above my head. And I know I can't tend to others' wounds while mine are still bleeding, so please, don't lean on me too often. I’m still yet to win my battles.
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To the girl who hasn't been herself lately... Your spark will return, and you will shine like you were meant to. It's difficult when you catch yourself not being you. When you feel your whole world falling apart before your eyes.
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“Do you know the story of the sun and the moon? “The sun loved the moon so much he died every night to let her breathe.” Only when you know your own darkness well can you be present in the darkness of others, and only when you live in the light of your own painful truth, you shine a light of hope in someone else darkened world. Good night 💤🌙🌠
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SPARKS OF LOVE Don't think that I don't feel the hidden pride you have for me, Don't think that I don't notice the energy you feel. Don't think you cannot reach me, I'm waiting patiently. Don't think you're not enough, we were always meant to be. You've shown me that you care by the little things you've done; You've given me the strength inside to grow and to become. You speak so very silently but give so many ways. One day you'll know I love you too, I can't wait for that day. We'll meet by pure coincidence we'll smile, exchange hellos. We'll chat about our lives and how much we both have grown, And then we'll both be honest and speak our truth inside; Bear our vulnerabilities, open our hearts wide. We'll look into each other's eyes and feel our souls unite. You'll gently place your hand on mine and lift my heart to light. We'll kiss so very gently, our lips as feathers free, And start our every after like it's always meant to be. It doesn't take a scientist to formulate reactions; Our chemicals were born inside, it's why we feel attraction. I understand you feel that there's mountains we must climb, So I'm here moving mountains till the day you know you're mine.
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I am strong Because I have known struggle I am powerful Because I have known hardship I am successful Because I have known failure I am confident Because I have known insecurity I am beautiful Because I have known transformation I am giving Because I have known loss I am patient Because I have known endurance I am compassionate Because I have known suffering I am loving Because I have known heartbreak And I am wise Because I have known life.
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Lesson learned. “To remember who you are. You need to forget who they told you to be.” When I was someone’s daughter, someone’s wife, and someone’s mother, I never asked myself, who I am without these labels, the labels defined me. You have to learn to respect yourself enough to build healthy boundaries where you once had none and be proud of who you are today, that has been built on honesty and truth. Always be happy with what you yourself have been able to do on this your own life-changing journey of self-discovery. When you know yourself, know who you are, the labels others put on you are more for their own benefits, and not yours.
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Lesson learned. “Falling down is an accident; staying down is a choice.” What defines you is not how many times you fall, what defines you, is how well you rise after each fall. It is up to you to stand up each day choose the path you walk on and when you do, it is also up to you to make sure you leave clear footprints behind for others. We must remember that not everyone sees what you see, hears what you hear, understands or believes what you believe in, we are all at different stages our own life-changing journey, all walking a different path towards our own recovery and healing the child within our adult body.
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Stop breaking your own heart to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work. You can't force someone to care about you. You can't force someone to be loyal. You can't force someone to be the person you need them to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person you're best without. You got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don't lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to be broken. You can't get the relationship you need frome someone who's not ready to give it to you. And you might not understand why now, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of why things didn't work out. Trust me. Don't put your happiness on hold for someone who isn't holding on to you. Some chapters just have to close without closure.
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Dear girls, Never beg for a guy's affection and attention. He will give it to you without asking if he really values you. Never put yourself that low. No guy is worth your dignity and honor. Respect yourself. Know your worth.
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The Road to Home The biggest mistake we make is that we build our homes in other people. We build those homes and we decorate them with the love and care and respect that makes us feel safe at the end of the day. We invest in other people, and we evaluate our self-worth based on how much those homes welcome us. But what many don't realize is that when you build your home in other people, you give them the power to make you homeless. When those people walk away, those homes walk away with them, and all of a sudden, we feel empty because everything that we had within us, we put into them. We trusted someone else with pieces of us. The emptiness we feel doesn't mean we have nothing to give, or that we have nothing within us. It's just that we built our home in the wrong place.
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"Just do right. Right may not be expedient, it may not be profitable, but it will satisfy your soul. It brings you the kind of protection that bodyguards can’t give you."🌻
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Did you ever wonder if you were allowed to travel through time and space, where would you go? Would you go to your past and change some things you did? Or go to another time where nobody knew who you were? Would you have turned into the same person? Would you go to places very far away from you or very far from what you are? Would things really change? Or what you really needed is to travel through yourself? Back to the purity of your old soul and forward to the wisdom you will gain with time? Fly through your best capabilities and dive into your hidden gems? Maybe time and space are just floating within you but you never noticed.
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Lesson learned. “It is so easy to break down and destroy. The heroes are those who make peace and build.” Nelson Mandela. What you do with your life after what's been done to you, is what makes you, you. The pain you’ve felt as the adult observer of your childhood is a reality of life, denial is no longer an option for you, the truth will not allow it now, once you have regained your eye sight back, you can’t pretend to be blind. Most people are afraid of the truth that lives within them, many are scared that other people will see their ugly hidden secrets. After the awakening of your soul you can’t go back to wearing masks to hide your inner pain or put on band-aids to cover up the scars that are left behind. I no longer need validation from my dysfunctional incest family or from others who know about my childhood and the price I’ve had to pay on this life-changing journey of self-discovery while searching to know even more truth, a truth that lived within my adult body all along, as my own suppressed childhood memories. It will take an inner strength many think they don’t possess to live in the bright light of your painful truth and make peace with your childhood past, but you do have it when you allow your inner child to have a voice, and become a friend and not an enemy, it is only then that the craziness of the past will stop with you, and your new adult life will begin.
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Good morning. “When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place.” On this life-changing journey of self- discovery when you feel like giving up that is the only time you should look back to see how far you have already walked to get you to here. Most people fear change, but mostly they fear what they don’t understand, so they never see reality, many will remain trapped in the past.
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"I know that when I pray, something wonderful happens. Not just to the person or persons for whom I'm praying, but also something wonderful happens to me. I'm grateful that I'm heard." Good morning have a beautiful day ! , 🌻
