We know that we came to this world for our parents. We all love our parents more than anyone else. Parents are always ready to sacrifice their own lives for us too. But are all parents so good? If all the parents were so good, 50% of the parents in the old age home would probably be with their children. Sometimes some parents go to the old age home to enjoy the fruits of their labor. Our world is round, and the fruits of all our actions come back to us in cycles.
Many TV programs, dramas, cultures show how much a child has a duty to his parents. Everything a child needs to do for their parents is shown on a TV program for their service, as all the sacred texts discuss the child's duty to parents. Well! Are all the scriptures written about the rights of parents? There is no writing about the duty of parents towards their children? Of course there is, but has anyone shown it in a TV program or a drama, a movie? No! Didn't show up. Many do not even know what needs to be done for the good of their children. As far as I know there are many parents who have never loved their child, acted against their child. I will tell you some facts today, and explain how a parent can be so bad and meaningful to a child.
Incident-1
There was a sister I knew who was married against her will. The thing is, that sister had 3 more sisters and they had no brothers. The sister was older than all her sisters. The sister liked a boy very much. The boy was studying in the university for 3 years. So it took another 2-1 years for the boy to become stable. That sister was also studying in the 2nd year. But at some point all the parents want to marry their daughter and keep her daughter happy. The mother and father of the sister also arranged the marriage of the girl but the girl did not agree to marry. Because the boy with whom she will be married is her cousin. And that boy lives inside their house. Even though the marriage was very bad in the same house, the sister's parents were behind the marriage. Since all the girls have to leave their father after marriage, my sister's parents wanted her to stay at home. And let him serve his parents in his old age, because he will marry the other 3 sisters and send them out of the house. In that case his eldest daughter will take care of them. But he did not like the sister's son at all. Because the character of the boy she would marry was not very good. But under the pressure of the girl's family, she has to marry her cousin by sacrificing her love. But the purpose for which the sister's parents married inside her home did not succeed. The sister is married to her cousin, but she does not see her parents or talk to them. The sister wanted her parents to take care of her, no matter where she lived, if she wanted to marry the boy of her choice.
Incident-2
My uncle had 5 children, he sent his eldest child abroad to work because their family's financial situation was not so good. So the eldest son was sent abroad. Going abroad, the eldest son opens a bank account in his father's name and keeps most of his salary in a bank account for his parents. But her parents spent that money on her other child and helped stabilize the other child. But after many years, when the eldest child returns from abroad, he realizes that there is no money left in his bank account. There is no point in depositing everything that was wasted on his parents. As a result, my cousin is begging in many ways. He who used to work day and night for his family and send money has to beg today. Old age home is the last refuge of some parents for such behavior of parents.
Incident-3
A boy in the area next to our village marries a poor girl from our village. The marriage of the two can be called a love marriage because they liked each other. But the boy's parents did not like the poor girl. His parents wanted their child to marry a Dhoni girl and take a lot of property from the girl's family. But their plan did not succeed as the girl's father-in-law and mother-in-law wanted to torture the girl and evict her when the boy was not at home. But because the girl is very simple, she does not want to leave home. So the mother-in-law of the father-in-law burned the poor girl to death. But the boy later realized the incident and left the house. The incident was later described as a gas cylinder explosion, but the parents escaped the law but did not find their son. The last time they saw their child was 12 years ago, they never saw him again.
Before teaching our child the duty of responsibility on their parents, we should tell ourselves what our responsibility is on the child! Then our life will be happy and so will the child.
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