Many go looking for the perfect person that they think to be in a relationship with. Forgetting that no one has all the value at once and possess no vice.
To the guys, when they seek to be in a relationship they want the best of the best, without looking first at themselve to see how perfect they can be.
In rude boys "woman", which largely inspired this write up, he noted that if you are looking for the perfect woman then prepare to make her all by yourself.
This alone tells you that relationship can be a place of building character and reshaping one another.
It involves the union of two to make better beings to spring up. You can't say to wanna be in a relationship and the place of tolerance is missing.
Ofcourse, wrongs will arise and you demand self control and understanding to scale through such hurdles successfully.
Never think, on the other hand that you are perfect and your partner is the wrong one. Learn to access yourself and make sure that you understand each other.
Furthermore, for there to be peace in any place one have to suffer in silence. This means that relationship is neither heaven nor jannah, where everything will look so perfect and subtle. Quarrels will arise but you have to make sure that you scale through, through understanding and tolerance.
Be the perfection you need in a relationship and learn to make room for peace.
Thank you all.