What do you want Comforting Words or Patama Qoutes?

Today I browse in my facebook account for 30 minutes and I came across with some *patama quotes" came from the fb group that I followed. The admin is very straight forward when it comes in advising people she didn't filter her words. So if you are very sensitive person you will easily get irritated and maybe unfollow the group immediately if you're not used to it

Some of this patama quotes are:

"If you don't know how to help yourself there's no success in you. You will be forever dependent to your parents"

"If you always locked yourself at your comfort zone you are like Juan tamad very spoon feeding waiting for the blessing to fall on him. What if that blessing will not fall on you? You got nothing cause you did nothing,. no effort in you, it means you are belong to Juan Tamad the most indolent person"

"You weren't in reality of life if you consider life as taker only. Be ashamed to the people who are providing your needs. Not becauase you are supported you're not going to work remember they are not always there to support you and you're not thier forever responsibility do your part also".

"Don't assume that people talk about who you are (I mean your secrets in life) (your reasons why you locked your self at home and do nothing) because you're not that important person to be think off.

--Some of the member of the group wanted to hear some comforting words but sorry to say the admin wanted it that way because according to her comforting words can be get to our family, friends and it is use less if that person didn't change at all just because you didn't teach or say to him the truth or the reality of life. You just want him to comfort but it is better to say the things he will need to hear. It is better to face the reality of life than hearing comforting words but it doesn't help you grow.

For me I want patama advise atleast naging totoo iyong tao di ba.. Hehe