I made this article to acknowledge those single moms all over the world not because that they are single moms but because they stand up for their child. Im going to acknowledge their effort surviving a lot of sacrifices and judgement of people around them.
What is a single mom?
Single mom is a woman raising her child/children alone without a husband or partner. Unmarried, widowed or divorce.
Im going to talk about single moms who stand and fight their child no matter what happen.
According to single mothers I know, being a single mother is tough especially when they were still studying.They need to double their time in finishing their requirements in the school and they need to make sure that they passed all the subject every semester for them to graduate on time.
Single mothers dream not to their own ambition but for their child's future. Everyday double time, double hardwork, double sacrifice is what they are doing. They need to work fast in order for them to have time for their child. Being with their child is the happiest moments of their life. Seeing their child growing without a father is something giving them pain but their father has no balls,no heart, and no love at all. Its better to raise their child alone than being with a partner who is not worthy to be a father and not worthy to be loved.
Criticism is not important to them what important is they stand up for their child.They need to do everything for they love their little angels in life.They may not have partner in life but they have their baby and their baby is enough for them to be strong and to stand up everyday. Their child is the reason for them to fight and to work everyday. Their partner is just a part of their past that gave them great blessing and that is their baby. But this partner doesn't deserve to be called partner for they dont have principles, don't want responsibilities, and no dreams in life and no commitment.
Maybe to some people single mother is a mistake but its not for the single mothers. Why? Because they consider their babies as a blessing and not a mistake. Their child is the reason why they are still living. And they promise to their child that they will do everything just to give them the life that they deserve to be. If they need to work abroad they would do it and they are hoping that someday their child understand them well, love them and be proud to them also.They are hoping that one day people embrace them also for they don't also want to be a single mother but they don't have a choice but to embrace being single mother.
Single mothers don't need judgement in life they need understanding. Yes, is hard for their parents to accept their daughter coming home pregnant without partner. Some parents disowned them, slap them, ignoring them for some days, months, for some parents years. Parents disappointment is natural for they have also dreams for their daughters and they understand that. What single mothers did is to prove themself to their parents again that they won't do it again and they need to follow their parents from now on.
Single mothers wanted to prove themself to all people who judge them that they are better than what people think to them. Single mothers still deserve to be forgiven and love for they are also human making mistakes and they are not perfect for no one is perfect.
Single mothers are one of the toughest people in the world for they survive being a mother without a partner. They raise their child without the help of their partner.Single mothers is one of a kind people in the world.
Salute you all Single Mothers in the world! Happy mothers day to all of you!
