Life is unpredictable. We cannot control anyone. We can only control ourself. Even the person we love, we cannot control them, we are just there to guide, support and love them as a family. But its different when you're inlove to someone, then that someone cheated on you ofcourse you will not love and support that someone especially when you give all your trust then eventually you would know that he/she cheated to you long time ago because of some reason. No one would be happy knowing that you cheated unless its your plan to hurt people around you.
Self control is necessary especially when you are already committed to someone. If you still want to have freedom don't commit your self because there is already someone out there who is looking and hoping for you to be responsible and hoping that your promises are true. Commit into relationship when you know already to love someone alone. When you already know how to value relationship. When you already know that you are ready to accept someone in your life for lifetime. When you already know that you are matured enough to handle relationship in times of challenges, bad times, and sufferings.
Don't commit relationship just for experience, just because you're are pressured, just because you see someone out there who is beautiful/handsome, just because you are alone, just because you see someone rich and you wanted to grab that opportunity. Its wrong mindset, don't do that because relationship and love its not a game, its not race, its not about money, its not about beauty, its not about experience, but a serious matter of life that you need to think a million times before entering relationship, because without understanding the meaning of love you would just go and cheat because you don't feel love at all because your reasons to love is wrong. That's why a lot of people cheated because before they enter relationship they don't know what they wanted its already late when they realize that don't really in love. That's why its better for them to be separated because there is no love and happiness at all.
Even you have the freedom to do things freely, you need to control yourself, control and control until you forget to cheat or do things that you know will going to ruin your relationship in the future. "Kasi kapag nalingat ka na yari ka, walang lihim na di nabubunyag"
If you have problems with your relationship with your partner, cheating is not the solution but talking and talking with your partner until it solve. Don't run your problems solve it right away becuase kapag pinatagal yan magkakaroon na ng lamat ang relationship ninyo kaya always be careful. Controlling anger is necessary when talking, stop blaming each other instead make peace to each other.
Cheating can be avoided by having self control and knowing the real reason why you love someone. Also being ready in a relationship is the most important because when you are ready you wouldn't do anything wrong when your relationship suffered because you already know that you are ready for everything. Because you already prepared yourself for it. Learn to be contented with one person also. You are real man/woman if you know how to love one person only ofcourse except for the muslim people because their tradition is different to us christians. Never heard a news that loving two woman/man are acceptable and they live their life happily ever after. Its a disgrace for us loving a lot of man/woman even the bible never supported this thing. Only love one woman/man in your life if you wanted a peaceful life.
June 30, 2021
Don't have any topic in mind but this making article about my thought about cheating. This my second entry on prompt no. 6 cheating by @JonicaBradley
Learn to be contented with one person also.
Sana na apply to nung ex ko dati...di niya kaya mag stick sa promise niya!