Does True Love Exist ?

There’s no mystery or excitement in that and it can lead to boredom and indifference. If someone wants to be with their partner all hours of the day, this could be a sign of an insecure attachment style which can lead to problems later. It’s also a sign that someone is jealous and controlling.

If someone is trying to isolate you from your friends and family, it’s one of the top red flags of emotional manipulation. Run fast in the opposite direction.

But, if you’re in a cynical phase in your relationship and you don’t detect signs of dysfunction, here’s what to do: don’t chase, beg, or cling. Don’t issue ultimatums. This is a sure way to create distance, resentment, and unwanted pressure. Sure, there may be a need for communication. Relationships die a slow death without it, but instead of forcing things, take a breather and make some space where both people can be themselves. This is the fastest way to decompress, while creating magic and mystery at the same time.

However, if one party is always going dark, disappearing without explanation, and not available by cell phone for days, this is another sign of dysfunction. If this is a pattern in your relationship, it’s a sign of bad things to come.

Is every man the same when it comes to his woman?

They generally don’t approach relationships the same way women do. A man might be in a relationship with a gal where there’s lots of chemistry and attraction, but she may not be long-term girlfriend material for him or someone he’d take home to meet the parents. Men obviously enjoy being physically attracted to a woman, but more than physical attraction, most men need emotional attraction.

Therefore, if you’re looking for a long-term relationship, jumping into bed on the first date might not be the right move. Men typically want someone who’s selective, and if he gets the feeling that a woman jumps into bed with everyone on the first date, he might keep her around a while, but he’ll still be on the prowl for someone more elusive.

Unless a man is manipulative or narcissistic, they want the thrill of the chase. Narcissists, manipulators, and players, however, love moving fast to get their hooks into others.