It is possible that you are a victim of some social disease, it can also be difficult to overcome this disease, so remember that there is only one cure for it. " Self Love" That means love for yourself , your body and your personality. But we are taught in childhood that love for oneself is a very bad thing. It is the saying of the elders to love others, love your neighbors, take care of all human beings and forget yourself because this is the root of many evils. Well, these things are also not wrong, but if you want to be filled with happiness, then you will have to be flexible in these principles and learn to love yourself. You have to learn to love yourself, to be friends with yourself, and will have to value yourself.
Every child is pathetically in love with himself, but it is taught that it is a bad thing, it is a matter of self-interest, then we give preference others to ourselves. There is no place for our happiness, success is realized that we have got rid of the bad, we have become good. We are also given the training to attend the other children in our game. Keep our toys to others, even if they are very dear to us, sometimes we are also tempted to recognize our status.
Children consider theirself very beautiful and important but by the time you reach your younger age, this philosophy of society has been affected you. In this way, many doubts give birth, self respect diminished, but it seems that with the passage of time, this practice keeps going. All these elements of society are busy working to create a new personality of oneself.
Everyday the attack of social values on the child continues, thanking others on everything, make arrangements for the elders, talk to them with their heads bowed, salute in the morning, always speak softly in front of the elders. The disclosure of above teachings is that the people are very important and the children are disrespectful, the others are more capable, you are not very important and disrespected yourself, then the children are advised not to judge their decisions. The result is that the personality is vanished. (To be continued)