In contemporary world a things is being seen in common and that is problem in relationship. In our country most of the suicide been occurred due to the breaking up of relationship of young people. Divorce after marriage is also a problem in our region nowadays. These problem are growing gradually. 

In this article i will discuss some basic things which is fundamental in a relationship. And when these three things are in lacking in a relationship then it can not be survived in a long run. 

In my opinion every relationship, whether it is a married relationship or a love relationship, needs three key things fundamentally. And these three things are: 

1. Trust 

2. Transparency 

3. And Love. 

Relationship that contains these three key things can go a long way. In any kind of relationship these things are must needed.. 

Now i will discuss these three things briefly and show you why these are important and what can be happened without having these in a relationship. 

Trust

Trust is the most fundamental and the most necessary elements in a relationship i think. Trust is the pillar. All these three elements are three pillars of a relationship and each of them are very strong pillar. And among all trust is the most strong pillar of a relationship. 

Without trust a relationship can not be expected. Suppose, in a love relationship two partners will trust each other and this is what expected by all. Trust can make married life very healthy and happy. In a very normal sense if any partner lost his or her trust from another partner in any reason, on that time when trust being lost, the relationship started to be destroyed. 

In a relationship the importance of trust is like the importance of book in a Library. As a library can not be imagined without books, a relationship can not be imagined without trust. But one thing need to be mentioned here and that is the partners also need to be trustworthy. 

What can be happened without trust? Without trust a relationship becomes toxic. Partners make quarrel in everything because they Don't believe each other. The third person sat Between the partners is scepticism. I am telling it person because it does a great negative impact. Partners become sceptical in every task done by the other. And these sceptical behaviour make quarrel very often. Make their life heal. 

So what should we do? We need to thing twice before going to any relationship that is it will be good or not. Think about the person that is he really trustworthy or not. 

Transparency 

Transparency is the second most important things in a relationship. Transparency creates trust Between the partners. If the partners of a relationship remains transparent then they are trustworthy and there is nothing to be sceptical for the partners in general. Relationship becomes happiest when two partners are transparent about each other and when  trust prevail there. 

The importance of transparency can be said in one sentence and that is, without transparency trust can nit be exists. And i discussed above about the importance of trust. So it can be said that without transparency a relationship can not go a long run. 

A relationship Without transparency is a relationship with lies. Where there is no transparency there prevail lies. Partners become liar to each other. And it falls at a time. 

Love 

Love can be the most important for someone. I also agree that without love a relationship can't exist. Love is the elements from which two person go to a relationship. But i am talking about how a relationship can survived. And that is why i put it in the third. 

Anyway i think we all know the importance of love in a relationship. Love makes the relationship cute. I don’t think so many things is need to be talk about it. If there is no love that relationship lost respect from each other. And it also make relationship toxic. Love is the key elements in a relationship. But do you know one thing? In the beginning love prevail every relationship but if there is any lack of trust and transparency then partner lost his or her love from the other. Now i think you can understand why i put it in the last. Because it reduces in the action of the two abovementioned elements. 

So, in the end if we want a happy married life or a happy relationship we need to emphasis on these three most important elements. And always assure thar Trust, transparency and love are prevailing in the relationship. Then it will go a long run. I sometimes see some person who are together in their life for sixty, seventy or even eighty years. They are still happy. Because they respect each other. Their friendship is so cool and they passed their life with these pillar.

One more elements is also important in a relationship. And that is friendship. When partners are friends too then it makes then happy more. 

Anyway it is my own thinking about relationship. I tried to learn form those who have happy relationship in their life. There can be dissimilarities with others. 

Thanks for reading my article.