A Lie needs more lies to survive
Truthfulness is one of the best virtues of the world. But very few people are hundred percent truthful in this world. Almost all of us tell lies in our regular life. But sometimes we tell lies and to stand up on that we tell lies more. Which makes our life hell. If anybody says he never lies to anybody then there is a possibility that this sentence is a lie. We all tell small small lies in our life. But in a crucial moment or on a matter of crucial things we need to be solid unless we will lose our personality as well as our respect to others.
I am not claiming that it is not possible to live on the truth. It is very much possible but the harsh reality tells us that very few people can do that. But those who can do that are respected everywhere. Telling the truth saves us from every problem. It can cause some problems in the immediate times but it will have better consequences in the long run. I always try to live on the truth in my regular life. But I can't claim that I never lied to anybody. Sometimes situations compel us to tell lies. But at the same time it should be remembered that when a loes causes problems or hampers others then the loar is a criminal. So be careful about what you are saying. Be careful about the consequences of your work. Be careful about the consequences of the words that are coming from you.
We can make an example here. Suppose Mr. X is a respectful man. He had once lied to a situation. But after that he had faced another problem for the lies he told. And at that point he needs to tell another lie. And this process continues. He needed to make a wall by lying. Lie over lie and go on. Now he feels like he is living in hell. He always lives in fear.
A liar can never be respected anywhere. In our society trust is a great thing. If anybody loses it then he loses happiness. Society is tied to trust. When a person tells lies again and again he becomes detached from society.
Truth never buried. It will rise and when it rises every lie will be evacuated. Only truth has the capability to rule.
I read a book written by Frederic Nietzsche. In that book he says something like this, I am not afraid that you have lied to me. I am afraid because I can't believe you from nwo. It is true. When you lie to anybody and he can understand that then what happens? Then trust does not remain anymore. Scepticism prevails in the relationship .
Relationships over lies never last a long.
A healthy relationship stands on trust mainly. When two person live together as life partners then the thing that is most important for them is trust. If there is no trust then it will never be long-lasting.
A liar always needs to remember what he has told before. Because what he has told is not actual and when it is not actual he needs to keep it in mind for the next time. But when a man tells the truth then he doesn’t need to remember anything. Because he will tell the truth. if he has been questioned thousands of times he will tell the truth and every time he will tell the same things. This is the benefit of truthfulness.
Lying with oneself…
Never do it. Never lie to yourself. It will just destroy you from inside. What happens when a person lies to himself. Human mind has two sectors, the absent mind is one of them. When a person lies to oneself at one point, the absent mind takes it seriously and it works negatively. Another outcome of lying to oneself is, it makes everything vague. It is like the person who lies to oneself can't distinguish what is true and what is not. Because lies make him blind.
So be honest and truthful in every aspect of life. You will definitely be rewarded. Thanks for investing your time and reading my article.
Lies create a lot of problems in life you said right when a person told a lie he goes into the problems and then takes another lie That's we should speak always truth