Who's your family?
Is it the people born of the same blood as yours? Is it those that showed you love in q great way.
As for Me there's and hierarchy to family. The ones who gave birth to you are the first in the chain. Then the ones born by the same people that birth you comes next. Then the ones you give birth to becomes next in line.
Lest I forget, people who groomed you while you grew up, stayed by you in trying times and helped you in immense ways should not left out. For you to call someone a member of your family, you should be able to be able to show the same or even more than the love that they showed you.
Be a member of your own family. As you grow, build people up. Help others. Its popularly said that "We rise by lifting others"
KNOW YOUR FAMILY