Who is your friend

A friend

A person not related by sex or family but share love , sympathy, empathy , common ; believe , interest and fun together.

Friends are part of what influence us into many things whether good or opposite, and there are different kind of them which ranges from friends that is trustworthy, meddlesome ones, bad influence among others . It apparent that we can't do without them. Although , many of these friends may be enemy in hiding but we shouldn't treated them as one. I remember vividly, there was a Yoruba saying which goes thus " A bad child has its own day" this might be confusing but it is very clear and understandable, because no matter how bad someone is , there should be little part of goodness, should you treat any bad influence friend as a counterfeit? No! Definitely no, you can also help them out , how ? I always like to utter this word "don't ever treat anyone to his worst, but treat them how best you are".

A trustworthy kind

Do you believe that a trustworthy kind still exist? Yes! But there is still but, because I learnt that only your parents want you to succeed in life right from the bottom of their heart, is this true? Hmm... We human have one common and notable shortcoming which is "sentiment" it is only if we stop fighting for "me" and "I "then fucus on "we", "us" and "you" afterwards the word could be a better place. To me trustworthy people are rare.

Meddlesome kind

As the word implies , they are kind of people that often poke nose in matter that is considered secret, private and not anyway concerned them. They are always in quest of matter meant to be known by only concern individual. Actually, their problem get why, some people are created like that meaning their meddlesomness isn't intentional but habit while reverse might be the case of others, they often do it with motive.

Bad influence Kind

These set lack proper orientation, they are like virus which remain as inanimate when it is alone but as soon it has gotten attachment, it immediately become animate (living) then replicate and tend to spread. They are already corrupt and need followers to be initiated.

Who is really your friend?

Your friend is your friend. Hold on to himdearly if he/she shares common interest, integrity, honesty with you. Your friend willnot create a problem for you and stand with you instead they stand firmly with you when you really need help, your friend will want you to grow mentally, financially, educationally to mention but few.