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My struggles living with my in-laws. October 7, 2022 1:24 PM Good afternoon guys. A sleepy afternoon here in my in-laws house. Since we stayed here last Monday I always find myself yawning when my son was asleep too. I am sleepy but I also need to do online hustle. I thought my life will be easier here as I am now focusing only on my son but I'm wrong. I feel so tired here compared to our house. I keep on cleaning and cleaning because of my mother inlaw who always carry her slippers with her every time she entered the house. I am always irritated by the cats who roams around the house especially when I saw the footsteps and the feather all around the house. Sorry for the cat lovers here but I am not comfortable seeing those feathers and my son can inhale it. During lunch time it's fine for me if I will prepare the food for my in-laws but the niece of my husband also eat here and I was like... Huuhhhh I just found my peaceful place here in our room and if I will be the one to choose I will stay here whole day but it can't be as my son loves to play outside. Speaking of playing. Since this is the house of my in-laws , thier grandchild always hang out there playing so active. Jumping on the chair , messing up the toys to the point that it became broken. I am an introvert. I really hated a noisy environment, it makes me irritated especially the kids who are hard to please. Pur food is here on our room as my mother in-law will going to get it or touch it. I am not maarte but my mother in-law keeps on holding everything like used facemask. Earlier I'm so stressed because I am cleaning the house and I put some of the sand in the trashcan because it has lot of ants and also cats poop that stink. My father in-law told me Mali Mali and he didn't allow me to put those sand in the trashcan because it will gets heavy. So ayun hayaan ko nalang mabaho yung harapan. Last night he let the cats eat inside the kitchen and leave the food there resulting that the left over will have ants. I told my husband about this and remove it but earlier my father in-law place it again inside the kitchen. For me it's okay for this kind of set up but I don't want it for my son. This is not the life I wanted but we ended up like this. Our room is the only place that is clean here. Today I sweep the floor thrice and also map it. Tomorrow we will stay on our house for two days and maybe I will feel better there.
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Mahirap talaga kapag nakikituloy lang sis, mabuti nga ako kahit kasama ko parent's-in-law ko ay nasa sariling bahay naman ako. Kaya hindi ako nahirapan mag adjust nung dumating sila.
Hindi Naman Kasi term Yung nakikituloy Kasi bahay na nga daw to ni hubby dahil bunso sya at parte parte na Yung lupa nila. Malas ko lang bunso asawa ko Kaya dikami makabukod
Bakit ayaw lagyan ng sand miss yen. Babaho talaga yun pag ganun. Ayaw na ayaw ko pa naman din pag may mabaho miss yen.
Ang dumi na nga dito gusto pa duduming Lalo. Sakin okay lang e. Kaso pano Yung anak ko
Totoo miss yen may mga bata pa naman.
Ugh! That is irritating. Ganon talaga ate kapag wala sa sarili monh bahay, bawal naman na pagsabihan mo kasi magmumukhanng nambabastos ka. Uwu.
Ayun nga. Puro kontra , kahapon nasagot ko habang nakain kasi kilala naman ako ng asawa ko. Kaya ayaw ko tumira dito kasi parang pagmumukain akong walang alam jusko.
Mahirap talaga kapag nakikituloy ka, kasi hindi kayu magkapareho ng routine. Nakaka stress nga talaga kapag ganun. Ganyan din sitwasyon kapag doon kami natutulog sa side ng mister ko.
Bahay na daw Kasi to ng hubby tho. Kahit gusto Kong magpumdar kami Wala. Hays
Mas maganda nga sana maka pundar ng sariling bahay. Yung may sarili kayung space. Your house, your rules.
Soon magkakabukod na rin po kayo🥺 hirap makisama pag ganyan
Malabo na yata yon. Hays
Kapag sa in-laws di ka talaga nakakilos ng maayos kahit sabihin nating okay naman ang bahay or pakikitungo sayo. Matagal bago makaadjust.
Yap saka iba talaga ugali ng FIL ko kaya nga nagsialisan sila dito sa bahay dati e kaso dahil Kasi sa mil ko na ulyanin no choice
Haay naku .. feel ko yung struggles mo. Pero no choice ka talaga nyan..
Kaya ngà jusko.
Your own home will always be your happy place. Ang hirap kumilos kung nasa ibang bahay ka at wala kang say. Maraming makakarelate jan Yen.
Kaya nga e. Kelan pa Kaya ako makakilos ng Malaya dito haha
Haha basta ako hinyaan ko si mama maglinis. Kulit kasi ni jv njng nkaraan ko p pinglilinis eh 😂😂😂
Naku maglinis at maglilinis talaga Yan. Alas kwarto palang naglilinis na Yan 🤣
Haha sinusuway nga ni jv. Xmpre d nmn ppapigil ung isa. Bahala sila jan😂😂😂
Ganon nga Yun. Tulog kapa nagkakalampagan na mga Plato
Hirap po makipisan ibang bahay. Kahit pa sabihin mo na family naman ni hubby mo... Hirap pa rin..kahit good terms kayo nagiging di good terms kase di mo maiiwasan na may mga bagay kayong di pagkakaaunduan
Casual lang Naman ako dun. Both senior na Kasi parents ni hubby. Yung mother inlaw ko mas matanda pa nga sa Lola ko Kaya hirap ako mag adjust Kasi si papa parang tropa ko lang tapos Yung father in-law ko parang Lolo ko na Kasi 73 na.
this is why when we got married, kahit sobrang hirap bumukod. Pag nasa bahay kami either one of the parents of us, ang hirap gumalaw at magpa hila hilata.