Why One-Sided Love is More Powerful than Two-Sided Love
In the realm of love, two-sided love is as rare as a shooting star in the vast night sky. But one-sided love? This is something you see every day. In fact, it’s so common that most of us have no idea why it has such a profound effect on our lives. You see, one-sided love is the perfect mixture of lust and obsession. It can be incredibly destructive almost like a drug when we allow it to take over our lives. On the other side of the coin, one-sided love can also be incredibly healing when we are willing to let go and find a new partner. It brings passion back into our lives and helps us rediscover who we really are underneath all those layers of self-doubt.
What is one-sided love?
One-sided love is a type of infatuation that causes us to view the person we’re in love with as some sort of savior. We pour all of our hope into this person, and they end up being nothing more than a mirage. This type of love is extremely toxic because it makes us believe that we are unworthy of true love. It’s like we pour our hearts out to a person who doesn’t even know we’re alive.
We fall in love with the idea of our partner more than we fall in love with the person themselves. We expect our partner to be an extension of ourselves, so when they’re not, we lose all hope. We become disenchanted and bitter, because instead of genuinely loving someone, we just fell in love with the idea of loving someone.
The risk of one-sided love
The risk with one-sided love is that the other person doesn’t even realize they’re in love with you. They believe they’re in love with you, but they just don’t know why. You could end up spending years — or even your whole life — searching for this person. The sad truth is that they may just be looking for you too. And when you finally find them, there is a good chance you’ll end up with a broken heart.
You may even find that your search has left you with a lot of unanswered questions, and no answers at all. All you’ll have left is a heart even more broken than it was when you met your partner. If you find yourself in this type of relationship, you have to ask yourself some serious questions. Is your partner someone you could fall in love with? Is your partner someone who could fall in love with you? If not, then you’re better off walking away. Be careful with how much you invest in someone who doesn’t seem to feel the same way.
How two-sided love is different
When we fall in love with someone who loves us back, we have what is called ‘reciprocal love’. This means that there is a mutual feeling of love between the people involved. Both people feel it, and both people are happy about it. But this kind of love is different from one-sided love in many ways. First, in one-sided love, your partner doesn’t seem to love you the same way you love them. In two-sided love, both people feel the same way about each other.
This means both people feel safe and loved. Second, in one-sided love, your partner focuses all of their energy on you. They cannot seem to feel, think, or act on their own. In two- sided love, both people feel a sense of equality and mutual respect. Both people feel happy and free to express themselves. And lastly, in one-sided love, your partner is someone you’ve created in your own mind. They aren’t real. In two-sided love, your partner is also real. They aren’t just an idea in someone else’s head.
Why two-sided love is more powerful than one-sided love
When you are in one-sided love, you are always chasing after your partner. You are always hoping they will change and become the person you think they should be. You are always trying to change yourself to make a relationship work. In two-sided love, you respect each other for who you are. You accept each other as you are.
You chase after your partner in one-sided love. They may not even be chasing you. You are always trying to make a relationship work. In two-sided love, you accept each other for who you are. And you don’t chase after your partner. You don’t need anyone else.
