A person's life success is determined by three basic potentials, namely cognitive (knowledge), affective (morals), and psychomotor (skills). If asked to make gradations between the three basic potentials, it is very difficult to determine them, because all are important. If we relying on cognitive and psychomotor alone to achieve success is still not enough, but there must be a human potential that must be developed, namely affective, attitude, attitude, or character.
As we know, in reality there are no people who are really stupid, only people who don't want to learn and don't want to care.
Attitude is not innate
Attitude is not innate. Attitude is also not hereditary, but there is a possibility of similarity with parents. Behavior is more influenced by the environment. People who work in an institution will be carried away by the behavior that the institution establishes. Institutions have a significant influence on their personal behavior.
Attitude can be learned
Because attitudes or behaviors are not innate, attitudes can be formed through association or through training. Hunger is a psychological condition. But choosing food is a determination of attitude. Survival is a psychological condition. But choosing a job that will bring you finances so that you can use it to survive is behavior.
Has stability
A person's attitude is usually stable. For example, choosing a certain color to dress. In certain circumstances, a preference for certain foods is often maintained by someone. For example, students from outside the region who persist not to eat local food, for a certain time in order to adjust.
Soul of someone significant
Personality of a pleasant person, usually means a lot to our tray. People act at will, usually will be shunned from the community.
Contains cognition and affection
A person's behavior is more influenced by intellectual and emotional intelligence. Intelligence is a sought after endeavor. A person's intellect is obtained from studying. Having stable emotions (morals) does not come immediately. There is a continuous effort to acquire noble morals.
Open to revision
People who have positive behavior are always open to criticism. For him, criticism is not an opponent, but rather a trigger to be even better. Criticism is like a brick ready to patch a building from an imperfect hole. A person who is ignorant of criticism is like an old building, ready to wait for its collapse due to time.
Those of us who feel lack of knowledge need not be inferior, as long as we have good morals. Skills too, don't feel inferior as long as we have good morals, "said the deputy chairman of the East Java PWM." A person's success is determined by cognitive intelligence only by 20 percent. The rest is morals, "
From the quotation of those words, I conclude that the key to success is not in essence about how genius someone is but the main dominant factor is behavior
No matter how smart someone is, if he doesn't have a good attitude then he will be closer to failure.
So we must encourage our children to catch up and build their morals. Don't leave the weak generation. Give the best education. Educate our children, as well as improve their morals. These two things will lead to success.
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