The search for true happiness; Love for Mother.
We have all seen the light of the world in the infinite glory of the Creator through two human beings. And these two human beings are our mother and father. She is our pregnant "mother" in whose womb we live before she touches the ground. The word suffering has always seemed unfamiliar to her. We gave her unbearable pain for 10 months and 10 days before she came to this earth. But when she came to earth, seeing her face, this worldly smile of Mamtamayi erased all her sufferings. Her child becomes dearer than her own life. And in the midst of this child, he finds all the happiness in the world. He has small dreams about his son or daughter. Night and day, time, timeless, ignorant child does not understand anything, cries when he needs and irritates his mother. What is the sign of annoyance in mother's face? Available? Certainly not, because this child is a piece of his neck. He endured hundreds of hardships with a smile on his face. This mother raised this stupid child. You can.
There is this man in the heart of the world, whose love can never be denied. Every moment of life, a child's companion is the selfless love of this mother and the blessings that come from the depths of the heart. Love is so perfect that there is not a speck of selfishness to be found here. Only the universe knows how many tears flow from the mother's eyes when the child is in danger. What does this mother do for the happiness of the child? Trying to keep the child happy even in the last hours of life. Almost every mother's last wish in life is "Before death, my sons and daughters can see happiness.
And we are the children of this loving mother! How much love is being cherished in our hearts for mother? Will our love for mother be lost in the midst of reading, writing, busyness and career? Without being crushed in the threshing floor of mechanical life, can we not give this selfless man some time? A smile on a mother's face and a heartfelt prayer can change our depressing, exhausting life.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said in a hadeeth,
“The person who once looked at the face of mother or father with the eyes of Maya, the eyes of love. The reward of an accepted Hajj will be given in his deeds. ”
One of the Companions asked, "O Messenger of Allah, what if someone looks at it a thousand times?" The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) replied that the reward of one thousand accepted Hajj will be given in his deeds. (Subhanallah)
So let's try to put a smile on the mother's face in the midst of hundreds of activities.
Those of us who are out of the house, whenever we talk to my mother (every day, two-three days in a row) at the end of the conversation I say at least once: Mom, I love you so much / Mom, I miss you so much / Mom misses you so much.
I can take a small gift of my mother's choice when I go home.
To go out, I can sometimes take a meal of my mother's choice from time to time.
If you go somewhere far away, you can only ask your mother, mother, what will I bring for you when you come? The answer is nothing. You just come back.
If mother wants to go somewhere, we can say with interest, mother, let's take you. Every mother is proud to carry her child around.
A lot of times mom can talk about a job that is difficult for you. So you shouldn't immediately say "I can't". Try to do the job. And if it is difficult for you, then explain it to your mother later.
If the mother ever scolds, many are angry or arrogant. It's absolutely starving. Hey, your mother scolded you, no one else. He suffers a lot until he breaks your anger. But once you think about it, this selfless person always wishes you well.
Sometimes we don't agree with our mother on different issues. So it is not right to talk angrily or think "this woman doesn't understand anything". Instead, you should think that he came to earth before you and he is our birth mother. If we think our opinion is correct, then we should explain it to the mother with an explanation later. Of course he will understand, and if he shows anger he will only be hurt.
We often want to make emotional decisions. But parents make decisions based on their experience. Therefore, their views should be taken into consideration in making any decision. They will be happy.
If the mother is ill, sitting next to her and giving her a little more time will do more for her mental well-being than medicine.
We can serve the mother whenever we can.
Everyone knows this:
“Child's Paradise Under Mother's Feet”
If we can do these small things regularly, the smile of worldly contentment that will appear on the face of the mother will certainly not be reluctant to fill our life with happiness. May Allah bless us all to serve our mother (Amin)