Good day everyone !Today i would like to about my grandmother.I was having time today with my lola she was 85 years old,white hair .She was moody,and oftenly get bored with her house.Sometimes we find it so hard to get along with her because of her attitude.She wants our attention,and because her children had already a family and other siblings were living in a far away places she missed them a lot.
And because of it i was thinking,how lonely she was living alone,she said she had seven children but no one left to stay with her.
This morning she was very happy talking to her daughter through a video call her face paint with a smile and bright eyes,almost cry of being so happy.She was satisfied when she talked to her daughter because she missed her a lot.Because of the pandemic her children could'nt be able to visit.
I realized since we are her grandchildren we are responsible to taking care of her and make her happy.It is a previledge to take care of our elderly to give back our gratitude to them for without them we're not here.
To take care our elderly is to stop them from feeling depressed,isolated and comfort to lead a healthy life with no worries and anxiety it makes them feel happy.
Here are some reasons why we need to take care our elderly:
Because they are our parent
Our life begins with them ,we will not exist without them ,we live through them,they sacrificed for us since we live on earth.They make night a day just to provide our needs,they loved us so much and they take good care.of us.To take care with our parents when they're old is seems like a reward.that we can give to them,and i think it's not enough for everythingand for who we are today,they are the one who serves as our guide ,our light ,in pur journey when we were young and now that we can stand on our own ,we should not be arrogant and dispised them because they need.us.
Show your love to them while they are still alive
Someone says that there is a old woman who died and her children was not in good terms.When they are about to bury the woman the daughter came crying loud,but honestly her mother could't heard it so while our parents are alive our grandmother we should show to them our loved and care before its too late.There's no rewind nor replay with every situation,so while we were with them,pour out our loved and care for them.
They give us a legacy
All the first step of learning was learned from them,our traditions culture,religion,also in conduct and manners all of things was being learned from them.We always said,my mother was like that,or my mother says,or my father was,eventually they instill knowledged to us in our daily life,and all the tea hings that they gave to us was a legacy.In all our ways and characters they are our teachers our most influencer ,the values that they instill in us will remain forever.
Their time is about to end
Before they passed away we should give them good memories and show our love and repect,it serves as a reward with all the things that they have done for us.When their time end it will never come back again.So cherised every moment of being with them.
This is what we need to do
As a children or grandchildren this is our responsibility to take care with them,to provide their needs .Especially they are not able to do something for their living.We need to do this not only for day but ti'll the time end.By the way,do you kissed your mom or dad,did you say I love you mom,I love you dad?This word was very special to them.Maybe they waited for so long to hear that,maybe we need to do so ,now and not tomorrow because tomorrow may not come .
For me,i'm reminded with this article,i need to do what i can to help and give comfort and happiness to my grandmother and my parents.Love them,laughed with them,watch Tv with them hang out with them,we may enjoy bonding with our friends ,so lets give time for our elderly.
May all of us find it as a special task given by God all for his glory.
Thanks for reading.😀😀😀😀
God bless everyone!
