When love fades

Love is a very important ingredient in every relationship.When you first fall in love,you seem like your on the top of the world,you got butterflies in your tummy,well while young and hot.

But how about if love became cold,when one lacks this foundation of hope and togetherness,life can get difficult.Emotion frost and the feelings getting cold,this maybe a terrible thing that would happened to a relationship.Love binds the family to stay longer.But what must an individual should do when love fades away?

I have heard from a woman says,'they still live together because of their kids'.This is not a healthy kind of relationship.

There is a scientific basis for the perception that love fades,it is the infatuation love,less intense,over time.To create a relationship with someone needs more push and long term attachment with the person.

Let me introduce to you the called Genuine love,its a kind of love that doesn't come and go.It doesn't mean that love won't fade away but when we say genuine,it refers to accepting one differences,flaws and weaknesses.Sharing an umbrella when it rains,just like that.

Warning signs that love is fading

1.You don't talk anymore-This happens when both are not willing to have a conversation.It seems that his opinions doesn't matter anymore.

Communication is really matters in every relationships.It is a key to a great relationships.Talk to each other when your not feeling better with your spouse,assist the problem and find certain ways to solved it.

2.Your bored-when boredom comes,be watchful with this signs,you feel excitement anymore.Its like a salt lost the taste of being salty.

3.You become unexciting-unexciting to see your spouse coming home or bonding with him.There's no spark at all.

4.Everything he/she do doesn't seem good to you.-its kind of thinking that what he did is nonsense.

5.Your relationship may not be important for you.-you are getting tired of it all ,you don't feel affected anymore even when the situation is not fine.Its a kind of numbness.You just say,I'm okey without you!

This is not a good scene already inside the house.In building a strong relationship two people should made a choice to work things out and fight for it to stay together.

This are ways on how to recover and renew romantic atrraction

1.Go on a date-Dating usually done during courtship or boyfriend or girlfriend to get to know each other.But most of the time married couple doesn't do this more often.

Well because of busy schedule with their job,demands of the kids and feeling exhausted with the works to do.But its a reminder to us to return into dating time.

2.Try new things together-discover new things together to see the world better,go on adventure,or biking,jogging swimming or singing ,each of them should get involved.

3.Kiss more often-understand the relevance of romance,this is really a practical practise that a couple should do.To kiss goodbye,happens only with the newly wed but when time goes by they never kissed.It is based to what i have seen around me.The more they kissed the more they get closer.

4.Renewing of vow-Vows is very important to be refreshed with marriage life,the day when you tell each others vows, reminds how you love each other.

5.Bring it to God-we need to pray,and put God at the center of every relationship,he is the source of love.When God is in the center of every couple,it goes smoothly as it should be.

6.Put energy back- remember the times when you are both cherished loved with each other.Its better to burn out than to fade away.

This another tips to.consider

1.Weekly overnight date-it needs commitment to do this,especially when we have kids,but its really good.This time should only the couples to enjoy,no kids,no household chores.

2.Develope a habitual connection ritual-it means that when you don't see each other whole day,try to holding hands while walking.

3.Document your love-take photos of your love,and put it on the gallery,there should be a photoshoot during bonding time.

How did cold relationship of parents affects the children?

Or does it really affect the children?Of course the childrens are very affected every time they see their parents having a problem inside the house.It affects with,

• The value of learning good relationship

• The view of having a happy married life

• Their choices to have a boyfriend or girlfriend

• It affects them in relating to other people.

• It affects the kids mentally

• It makes the children stress

• It hurt them

As of me,I grew with a parent who are always fighting,every night.There was a time that they almost hurt each other.So.what's in my mind,'someday i can go away from this house so that i will not see them again.I was envious with the family that is peaceful.and loving parent.

Generally,when love fades, the home is not gonna be a called home anymore.But as mentioned above ,there are ways where we can recover from falling down,so stand up ,lets fight for our marriage and make each day full of love and nothing can compare to this.

No relationship is perfect,all of us will undergo ups and downs,but what's impotant we share each other sorrows.Love is deserve to be restored and keep for the betterment of the family.

Thanks you for reading!

God bless you all?