In just 7 seconds, a person can create a first impression. The first impression lasts, the first appearance, first glance, first meet, is an event that is memorable to form a mental image of another person. Impression accuracy varies depending on the observer and the target observed.
First meeting with a boy and a girl is some kind of exciting event, a job interview, first encounter with a high profile person, first eyeball with your Textmate, chatmate.
What are the things that you need to consider so that your employer, boss, girlfriend, boyfriend, will not be turned off?
10.A soft handshake
A handshake is the first thing you need to consider it should be in a proper way, and in the right way. A weak handshake is a sign of the shyness of a person. So if you hold someone's hand make sure to shake his hand with the right attitude turned. Don't hold a person's hand for a long time, just in 5 seconds is just right. Holding a hand for too long will create a bad feeling that might just flirt or having a different kind of motive.
9.Keep your hand at the right place
This is usually applied during a job interview, our hand can make destructive movements due to the feeling of being nervous, if you put it above the table so it's much better that you just make it stay put.
8.Chewing gum while talking
This is an annoying behavior when you are talking to an interviewer, this will make a person think that you are not a good person, the movement of your mouth will be noticed by the person and it can cause a disturbance.
7.A good eye contact
A good conversation should have a good eye contact. Like doing a speech, in a singing contest, you need to look the person in the eye, which conveys a message that you are interested in a specific field your applying to or you are determined to win someone's heart or achieving a prize with a contest. It shows sincerity and it will never lie, it reveals an anxious feeling when your eyes were moving around.
6.Don't play with your hair
This usually happens with girls, our hair can be a sore eye during an interview. Playing with your hair especially when you are talking to a man during a meeting, may think that you are flirting with him. Its also a sign of being anxious, uneasy feeling but it is undesirable action for a job interview or talking to a client.
5.Be a good listener
When talking to someone make sure that you pay attention to the person you're talking to, with what the questions ask, suggestions, comments for you. Being attentive, that you might divert to another topic that is not needed.
4.Don't check your phone regularly
There is research that says, a person who is focused on the gadgets will check the cellphone more than a hundred times a day, checking about the time, emails, and many more. During a job interview, your phone must be placed in your bag while talking. Don't interrupt the interviewer just by checking some messages and answering calls.
3.Forgetting someone's name
Before going to an interview, there is a need of gathering information about the name of the employer and the background of the company, and the product or services being produced. Such an embarrassing moment when you forget the vital details.
2.Being late
This is usually the thing that should not be forsaken, being late is a turn off with your boss, girlfriend, boyfriend. It will make you in a hurry that you might do some shameful actions, like having A thirsty look, or frightened, worried. Time is very important for everyone, especially with the employer who spends time waiting if you come on time, it means that you are giving respect. Or else, you might lose the opportunity or acquiring an opportunity.
1.Wrong attire
Last but not the least, this is the most crucial one for a job interview. Show your best attire that is applicable for a certain occasion or event. If it is a job interview wear something that suitable for office work, or business attire. You may ask your close friends or a person who has a fashion sense.
These things are some suggestions by people who undergo a job interview.
The first impression must also be some kind of pretending or showing a good character just to impressed a person, but it should be done with sincerity with a heart.
This may just very basic but it is a sort of investment in something if you want to reach a goal, especially when your applying for work that is just limited slots, by giving your best during an interview is a must.
In terms of starting a friendship or a relationship, the first impression is important. The person may like you at once glance and may dislike also during the first appearance.
In just a single inappropriate behavior will last longer. It happens very quickly , first meeting is a very crynificant moment.
First impression never have a second time.
Be at your best.💚💚💚
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